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  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    edited October 2020
    I'm so fed up of everything... Pain all the time nowadays :( 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 991 Part of The Mix Family
    I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling so much at the moment @*BananaMonkey* my mum deals with a lot of chronic pain so I can understand how draining it is to deal with. I wish I could offer up a solution but it's not really something I can fix unfortunately, but you're always welcome to vent about things here on the boards we all care about you a ton. <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Thank you @Riley

    It's not just the pain, I'm in some trouble at work and it's stressing me out so much at the minute. I'm on annual leave and I feel like all this is just going to ruin my annual leave :(

    Just had enough of everything 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,170 Wise Owl
    Hey @*BananaMonkey* do you want to talk about what’s going on at work?
    Sending you hugs 💜💜
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Thank you for your reply @Lucy307

    It's complicated and difficult to explain. I'm trying to not worry about it but it's so hard. I'm on annual leave til 11th Nov and this is just ruining my time off :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Really struggling today... I don’t know what’s wrong. Woke up in such a rubbish headspace and I just can’t shift it :( 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 991 Part of The Mix Family
    I'm sorry to hear that you were struggling the other day @*BananaMonkey* I know you've been having a rough time lately. Just wanted to check in with you and see how you're doing at the moment since it's been a while since you've posted here. I hope you know we're all here for you whenever you need to talk. <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Really struggling tonight.. :( 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,170 Wise Owl
    Are you ok @*BananaMonkey* so sorry had missed your message? How are you feeling now? 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    The pain is so bad today. I just wanna curl up and cry. My dads really poorly in the hospital too :( 

    Just so done... I can’t handle anything else :( 
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey I’m really sorry to hear that. We’re all here for you and we’re always happy to listen  <3
    I’m sorry I haven’t got anything better to say. 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Thank you for your reply @SpaceOtter

    I’m just not ok today :( 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    I’m scared I’m gonna rely on old unhealthy ways to cope with this :( 
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    Sending hugs 💙 you got this 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,170 Wise Owl
    Hey @*BananaMonkey* sorry to hear you are having an awful day today, sending massive hugs. 

    You said you are worried you might turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Are you safe? Do you have a list of healthy coping mechanisms that might help point you in a better direction today? 

    Hope you’re ok, here for you. 
    - Lucy 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Lucy307 said:
    Hey @*BananaMonkey* sorry to hear you are having an awful day today, sending massive hugs. 

    You said you are worried you might turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Are you safe? Do you have a list of healthy coping mechanisms that might help point you in a better direction today? 

    Hope you’re ok, here for you. 
    - Lucy 
    Yeah I am safe. I’m just trying to distract myself really. I’ve had a shower, took my pain meds, and I think I’m gonna watch some tv and get an early night. 

    I just feel a bit lost 
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    TV sounds like a really good plan. It seems like you have some really good distraction techniques, tv or listening to music often help me.
    (Sorry if this came across patronising or rude)
    Remember we’re always here if you need someone to talk to  <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    SpaceOtter said:
    TV sounds like a really good plan. It seems like you have some really good distraction techniques, tv or listening to music often help me.
    (Sorry if this came across patronising or rude)
    Remember we’re always here if you need someone to talk to  <3
    Don’t worry it didn’t come across rude or patronising. 

    Thank you for your reply and your kindness :heart: 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    I don’t know how I can get through this.. 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    I feel so empty, in so much pain that I just don’t really know how to cope with it. I think stress has triggered it. :(

    I don’t know what to do.
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey I’m really sorry I don’t have any advice. I just wanted to say you’re  a really amazing and strong person. If you ever need anyone to listen I’m always happy to.  <3
    “I can’t promise to solve all your problems but I can promise you don’t have to face them alone” 

    we’re all here for you  <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    I’m in work tomorrow 14 hours but I just can’t sleep :( 
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    Ahh, Hope you managed to get some sleep in the end. It’s such a shame that you were in so much pain 😞. 14 hours is a masssive day, I hope that it’s going okay.  Take care of yourself.

    Sending big hugs ❤️
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    My dad has been diagnosed with stomach cancer :’( 
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    I’m really really sorry to hear that. We’re all here for you if you ever need anything.  Always happy to listen <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    My dads cancer is terminal he’s been given 6 months to a year to live :( 
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