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Hi, my name is gabba41!

gabba41gabba41 Posts: 1 Just got here
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Hi all hope your having a nice day,i walked out on a 29 marriage and my adult children are distraught I feel like s...t how do I cope with this ?

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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Hey, welcome :)

    I'm sorry, that sounds really hard on you. I understand feeling crap. Do you want to talk any more about how it feels? Am I right in hearing that you feel bad that your children are distraught about it, or are you also struggling with walking out of the marriage?

    How old are you? I thought I should mention that the age group for this site is for around 13-25 year olds, so as you say your children are adults I figured you may be above that age group. There's loads of other places though that would allow you if you're over the age group for here. Have you tried Elefriends? There's also always the Samaritans if you need to vent on a 1-2-1 thing <3
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Hey, how are you doing since posting? I hope youre okay and finding ways to cope. Sorry i dont have any suggestions 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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