Home Health & Wellbeing

need a chat, I have Gastroparesis so I can’t eat/drink and my fam are abandoning me because of it

JaziMarieJaziMarie Posts: 1 Literally just got here
I was kicked in the knee in school when I was 16, I’m now 23 and have had over 30 operations, there’s been a lot of complications and I now have a feeding tube which I also have to put all my meds through which includes morphine and fentanyl on a daily basis. But my family are starting to abandon me because of it. I end up in a&e multiple times a week projectile vomiting fresh blood and even choking on the blood. I have some of the top surgeons in the UK trying to help me but it’s just so complicated. I’m starting to lose hope and I just don’t know how to hold on and get through this on my own. I started googling and found some of these chat boards and reading some of the entries it seems like some of you may just need someone else to talk to, someone out of your family who will understand. Please feel free to speak to me, I could really do with the company, please??
Jazi x
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  • dancertoridancertori CornwallPosts: 125 The Mix Convert
    hi Jazi,
    i have gastroparisis and other heath issues too. im here for you.
    Tori x
    JaziMarieMaddie05
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 The Mix Regular
    I've been on this board an awful lot lately. I'll endeavor to reply whenever I can, which is often :) sorry to hear about your health issues too. Sounds like a shitty situation to be in that you just don't deserve 
    JaziMarieMaddie05
  • Butterfly23Butterfly23 Miniposter England Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    Hey!

    Welcome to the community and thank you for sharing with us 💗Personally, I haven’t had experience with Gastroparisis but I hope that you will be able to find some advice and support here for it! 😊 and feel free to keep talking to us.

    Hope you are okay,

    Butterfly x
    JaziMarieMaddie05
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m dead England 🏠Posts: 11,295 An Original Mixlorian
    Heyy welcome!

    You seem like a strong person. That sounds like so much to go through everyday & can hear you're starting to feel isolated?  We are here for you and you don't have to go through this alone. We do understand that sometimes speaking to someone that's not in your family can really help. We're all listening 
    <3 
    𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐒𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝. 💕💕
    Maddie05
  • alice123alice123 Posts: 88 The answer to life, the universe, and everything
    edited July 2019
    Hey @JaziMarie

    I just wanted to say well done for reaching out. It sounds like you are going through a lot right now and I wanted to let you know that we are here to listen to you whenever you need. It can often be really helpful to have people who are external to a difficult situation who can listen to you without forming opinions. 

    Did you want to speak more about the Gastroparesis and how facing it is making you feel?

    Sending hugs <3
    Maddie05
  • SebJSebJ Posts: 4 Newbie
    Hey that sounds really tough, and really unfair your family are treating you badly. Not sure if it applies but if you're needing help have you looked into getting social care or nhs continuing care support?
    Maddie05
  • Maddie05Maddie05 UK/NottinghamPosts: 56 Boards Initiate
    WELCOME! 

    YOU ARE SO BRAVE! SO STRONG AND MIGHTY! KEEP GOING! And your family are a piece of sh*t (sorry about my language, I'm angry!) if they are leaving you because of that! If I had all those complications like you, my mum would be there 24/7! Your family don't deserve someone so special and rare! ❤

    Keep fighting! YOU DEFINITELY DESERVE TO LIVE! YOU WERE BORN A WARRIOR! ❤

    TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! WE ARE HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED A CHAT! ❤❤

    - Maddie, 13
    Butterfly23
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