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I literally have no friends

ShaunieShaunie Posts: 14,308 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
edited November 2018 in Sex & Relationships
I dont think i am ever going to make friends again. Im a distant person because im scared people will be horrible and maybe bitchy and i get parniod. And i try to keep friends but i cant - idk why i just find simple things like replying to people makes me so stressed and just anxious mess. Just reading my messages on social media - its full of messages ive never replied since likes months ago or its people telling me that i am being rude for never replying and not trying. I lost all friends i ever had. But even then they wasnt that close friends

Im just so sad and lonely and this is never going to change and i just wanna kill myself and think lonlieness will be death of me. But it is my own fault. 

Idk why i am posting this tbh when i feel like nothing will help me make friends - i am just that lonely i am seeking replies and attention
“ i think that deep down you still think life is worth living. It’s no where near over for you. You’re in pain. The thing you lost, Is the same thing that can stop that pain”


  • LaineLaine Fruit loop Gone for gooPosts: 2,766 Account Deactivated
    I'm really sorry to hear this Shaunie, but you know if people think you're rude for not replying when you are going through things then they aren't all that great.

    i understand why making friends can be hard but if you want to try then i say go for it.

    nobody is perfect and there will be someone out there who would be happy to, no matter how much you reply x 

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

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  • Lucy307Lucy307 UKPosts: 1,021 Wise Owl
    Hey Shaunie

    Sorry to hear this... I get this too, I saved this the other day as I thought it summed it up pretty well: 

    I've actually shared this with a few close friends to help them understand. It's not your fault, and people who have been through the same can easily understand once told, but at the same time people will jump to conclusions/assume until you tell them otherwise. Not to say it's right, but I think it's quite normal for people to think you are rude if you are not replying as that is the easiest conclusion to draw, without dreaming it could be for the reasons above. 

    Do you think you would be able to discuss any of this with any of your friends? Start by trying to reply to one, if/when you feel comfortable to do so?

    - Lucy
    Treat yourself as you would treat a good friend
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