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Can i have a hug please?

AbigailAbigail Posts: 818 Part of The Mix Family
in Health & Wellbeing
Hey I don't post much around the boards about me and how i am recently.

The past hour has just been really tough. I have tried to keep going and and stay positive. If you've been is SC these past 2 night you could tell i didn't want to talk and that's because I didn't have anything to say and I was also told to keep busy.
20 minutes later my mum who I carer for I find in a depressive state and really upset with herself. (I won't say much more). I am worried about her, she hasn't got the correct staff she need to support her I have no say over what happens as I am only 17. Please all I want is a hug and nothing else. I dont want to talk or say anything else i just want a hug. 
Some people think I am unhappy. I'm not. I just approach silence in the world that never stops talking.

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    crossflame20crossflame20 Posts: 8 Confirmed not a robot
    🙆‍♂️🙆‍♀️ <--- Closest I can find to a hug emoji

    We care for you. Hang in there! 
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Just got here
    One from Sophie also.
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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    Sending lots of hugs and positive vibes to you and your mam, I'm always here if you want a chat/vent  <3 
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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    AifeAife Community Manager Posts: 3,031 Boards Guru
    edited August 2018
    Sending you hugs Abi, we're all here for you <3 
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
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    *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Just sending some hugs first class delivery hope you okay :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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    AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 1,859 Extreme Poster
    Hey Abi,

    I'm sorry to hear about the situation you and your mum are dealing with at the moment. Here for you if you ever want to talk/vent x

    Much love <3
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,499 Skive's The Limit
    *Hugs* 🤗
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    fadedangelfadedangel Posts: 263 The Mix Regular
    Sending hugs Abi  <3

    We are all here for you if you ever need to rant xx
    « I have been through hell but the best is yet to come « 
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    AbigailAbigail Posts: 818 Part of The Mix Family
    Thank you everyone. My mum is down a lot better now. Unlike myself but oh well. 
    Some people think I am unhappy. I'm not. I just approach silence in the world that never stops talking.
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    Lucy307Lucy307 Posts: 1,171 Wise Owl
    Massive hugs <3 and if/when you want to talk, we're here x
    Treat yourself as you would treat a good friend
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