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That's fuuny, that's exactly what my Dad's last girlfriend said for a year before getting out of her marriage.
You would be learning and this is a proven teaching method! But would you end up hurt? If you have feelings for this boy, then things are bound to crash and burn! And if you develop feelings for him, its going to get bad. But if it is only a no strings attatched thing, then go ahead, everyone's a winner once he's broken up with his girl.
I had an experience just like yours only at the beggining of the year. A very good friend was talking to me about head and how I did it, so I explained. He said that my 'method' sounded very good, and he said that I might as well perfect it on him. And I did. We are still engaging in this, and we are both benifiting. It's great!
Go for it hoeny, I wish you all the best, and it'll be great.
Love me
xxx
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I think you should stay well enough away, and tell him to cool it with the texts. He is your brother's friend, and yours by the sound of it. If it all goes pear shaped (which it could well do) you'll have a huge mess on your hands. Better to leave it alone. He sounds decent enough--he did tell you to let him know if it was bothering you. He sounds like he's just having a bit of fun "flirting" (and I use that word loosely).
On the other hand, if he does break up with his girl, check that you're not a rebound thing and then it might actually work out. Your call obviously, but take my advice...play it very carefully, or hurt is inevitable. Good luck... <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Sorry, that wasn't very constructive.
You keep defending this guy and saying that he isn't a bastard yet he's blatantly trying to get you to give him a blow job whilst he's still in a relationship. Whether he's going to split up with her or not is completely irrelevant really, at the moment he is still with her and therefore he shouldn't be seriously engaging in this kind of conversation with you.
*thinks the words 'pot', 'kettle' and 'black' should be put together in a come kind of sentence*
*sigh*
However, i have come to the conclusion to not do anything with him until he has split up with his gf, that's if i'm going to do anything at all, cos they could miraculously get back on track and i don't want to have any kind of guilt looming over me - if that makes sense.
Okies, well that's all i have to say for the moment...oh yeah and thanks for everyone's help <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Of course I really like Mikki's advice as well. Your young and should be care free to some extent. You'll make mistakes, but by absconding from adventure, you'll miss out in life. Just try maintain decent judgement.
Another thing you may want to try so you can avoid feeling like your being used: All this talk about you given head and all you get in return is free lessons. That's nice and all, but it sounds like it leans in his favor. I think you should tell him that if he can make you cum from oral, then you will try and return the favor.
I said no more!
Yes that's right - no more!
Ok, i texted Mike telling him to stop, cos i was getting all confused over the whole thing, and he said yeah that's fine, we'll just remain as friends. So yay, life is better!