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Struggling and on holiday.
*BananaMonkey*
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Hi.. I know being on holiday its meant to be a happy time. For me its not been that happy. Me and my friend arent getting along very well and I want to come home. My friends mental health isnt that good atm and I dont know what to do. She is in bed atm I have come out to clear my head. I want to try and enjoy the rest of the holiday but things are difficult.
Not sure what to do.
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Not sure what to do.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
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It was great seeing you in chat this evening, and I do hope you were able to talk a bit about your friend then to. How are you doing? It sounds like being on Holiday is quite difficult at the moment, and it can be difficult managing someone else's mental health on top of yours, you however, need to look after yourself. I saw the pictures of your holiday on Facebook, they were absolutely beautiful! - You have quite the photographic eye, and it seems like quite a relaxing place to be.
Maybe it's about keeping your friend distracted throughout the day, I find being distracted can really help, like a set amount of tasks during the day, and things you want to see before you leave, for example a Holiday Bucket list, how would you feel about doing something like that?
Do let us know how you and your friend are getting on beautifuls
Best wishes,
WhispersOfTheHeart
I am okay now. We had a pretty chilled out evening. I am just finding it hard being away from home for this amount of time.
I love taking pictures helps to chill me out. Glad you liked the pics and its a lovely place to be right now.
I like the idea of a bucket list. We have plans for the last few days so hopefulky that helps. I just feel somewhat responsable to make sure she is safe and okay.
I dunno...
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Chilled evening are lovely - I do hope there were s'mores However, you aren't responsible for her safety, however, if she does hit a crisis point, please call out for an ambulance, and remember to look after yourself, it won't help the situation if both of you are having breakdowns. What plans do you have for tomorrow?
Try listening to music, and doing stuff that cools you down if you do feel as though things are getting to you, for example a lovely warm bath?
Uhm.. today think we are just gonna have a chilled day, swimming and may take some time for myself and go on a walk.
I would love to have a bath but hotel only has showers cant wait to go home and have a bath. The shower is well weird here.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
What's going on beautiful? Has something happened on holiday?
I know it sounds so stupid.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
It doesn't sound stupid/lame at all, often a change of enviroment can be difficult for many people, we don't really realize it until we've actually changed environment. Can you take anything at all for the pain, try and relax a bit, when do you get to go home?
What do you have planned for today, lovely?
I dont know what were doing today. Friends in bed atm. She prob wont be awake til about 1pm ish. I am home on Tuesday. We leave monday night.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
My friend has proffesional support, she just tells me loads of stuff though, which is sometimes difficult to deal with.
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Glad you're feeling a bit better now you're home. It sounds like the holiday wasn't that great an experience?
Are you back to work soon?
I am back to work tomorrow- however I am doing a SENCO course(at long last) so I am not at work til the afternoon, I have missed the children, and can't wait to get back into routine. I have missed having that routine and it's been quite difficult for me to adjust too. I guess when I am off on holiday usually but not doing much I can stick to a routine in a way, but it was hard being abroad.
I am so glad to be back.
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
It made such a difference to my own mental health to be able to post on here when I was finding things difficult while I was away.
I can't thank you all enough you literally helped me so much, and I appreciate it so much.
So a massive THANK YOU for taking the time to support me, and be there for me.
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "