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My ex was found guilty of ABH,breaching a non molestation order,harrassment and stalk
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I have just been through a year of hell to say the least ! I split up with my ex when i found out he was cheating on me via sex texting ,oh the shame ! I told him to leave our home in which we had shared for 3 years ,and to basically never contact me again ! Within a few days he was begging for forgiveness and i accepted his apology But the abuse that i endured from then on was horrendous ! He beat me and broke my fingers ,he stole my phone on several ocassions,he humiliated me in front of people on a regular basis ,deprived me of sleep and i lost my job as an ambulance driver ...my life was hell ! He eventually left after i got the police involved and the rest is history ! He stalked me ,he harassed me,he sent filthy videos of himself to my kids ( be it they are adults) and generally caused me a huge amount of stress I eventually got a non molestation out on him and thought, with the polices help, that would be it ! Not so ..he manipulated people into thinking i was lying about the abuse i recieved and suddenly my name was mud ! He then went on to breach the non molest order and also attacked me in the meantime ...the trial has just ended and he was found guilty ! I am still on edge as sentencing is not due for another fortnight whilst pre sentencing reports are given .I also have another trial in August with him and was wondering if this will be brought up in pre-sentence reports ? My nerves are in bits and it has been a harrowing year !
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What a year you've had. This sounds really really tough on you and on your kids too.
I was wondering if you'd had any contact with Victim Support at all? They have a supportline that you can call that's open 7 days a week.
They could be a good source of support over the next couple of weeks while you're waiting for the sentencing. Have you got much other support at the moment in terms of friends or family?
I spoken to them they really help full
Soery to hear waht was going on good that u got tge police Involved have u told the police what he done to u. Ur being so brave well done keep us poated we here for u xx
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