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I was just wondering what the best thing to do with my pubic hair is..
I'm about to have sex for the first time, and have no idea what he's going to expect from me! No one has ever told me what I should 'look' like down there and I know different guys like different things.
Do they expect/mind me to have some hair on the lip part? Or am I expected to be stripped bare of it all?
Girls what do you do?
Guys what do you want?!
I'm really ready to loose it, just nervous about this part.
He's also a lot more experienced than I am and I don't want to mess it up/ruin it!
What do I need to do?!
I'm about to have sex for the first time, and have no idea what he's going to expect from me! No one has ever told me what I should 'look' like down there and I know different guys like different things.
Do they expect/mind me to have some hair on the lip part? Or am I expected to be stripped bare of it all?
Girls what do you do?
Guys what do you want?!
I'm really ready to loose it, just nervous about this part.
He's also a lot more experienced than I am and I don't want to mess it up/ruin it!
What do I need to do?!
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How do I get rid of all of it? How do I shave it all?
Or if I keep some by the 'lips' how should that be?!
I thought I'd drop in a couple of useful articles from TheSite that might help...
Is my vagina normal? http://www.thesite.org/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/is-my-vagina-normal-3948.html
Am I too hairy? http://www.thesite.org/your-body/womens-health/am-i-too-hairy-7268.html
One tip from this ^ article is:
All girls have their own preference really so he probably won't be expecting anything in particular, what's important is that you feel confident about yourself down there so you're not worrying about it.
Some people like to just keep it tidy and trimmed so that nothing creeps out from around their underwear. Some prefer to wax the edges and maybe a bit off the top, some will choose to wax a lot more or even get the whole lot off. It's worth remembering with waxing that it might look a bit red/sore for about 24 hours afterwards so if you go for that then do give it some time to recover.
And remember, it's entirely up to YOU what you want to do - what would you be happy with?
This article on sex for the first time with a new person also has some really good advice that might help to calm the nerves :yes: http://www.thesite.org/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/sex-with-a-new-partner-3932.html
In particular this!
Good luck and let us know how things are going