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Must I always refrain from complaining and talking shit about ppl at work?
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I wanna change for the better. I just wish they could forgive me.
I went into work that weekend and she was fine. Then I made that one negative comment about a customer and she be pissed about it all day. Tf?
K well, my supervisor still don't know that I talked shit about the team lead, so she didn't count that against me. The only thing she counted against me in this incident was my negative comment about the customer, who was "ugly and stupid." She coulda just yelled at me to stop and then let it be over. Y did she be pissed all day about it? Btw, I sure as hell don't intend to talk shit ever again.
She didn't treat ne one else like that, so she wasn't in a bad mood. However, she been mean to me all day!
She was probably "pissed all day" because of your continuing bad attitude
How was one negative comment continuing bad attitude? When I walked into work that day, she was fine with me and everything. Then I talked very negative about the customer and she changed in a flash. And her attitude towards me started sucking big time. So all I did was make that ONE comment about the customer...see what I mean by out of proportion?
It depends what the comment is. Either way, making nasty comments about customers isn't on.
You should treat others as you wish to be treated.
Said he was ugly and stupid and it isn't on. But to be pissed with me ALL DAY?!!
Can't understand how they've managed to restrain themselves from lamping you, that is.
Lampung me for what? That ONE nasty comment I made to a coworker about a customer?
Yes. It was one nasty comment too many.
Even if it was the only one I made? When I walked in to work that day, she treated me like everyone else. Then as soon as I made that comment, she changed completely in a flash. So one comment was one too many?
If by some strange twist of fate any of the situations you've described are real, then you need to contain that attitude of yours before you get thrown out of whatever job it is that you've been lucky enough to keep until now.
Not sure of the relevance of any previous fuck ups on my part since she started out ok with me that day. A half an hour later when i made that comment was when her attitude changed.
Not sure of the relevance of any previous fuck ups on my part since she started out ok with me that day. A half an hour later when i made that comment was when her attitude changed.
Yes, we get it, youve said it about a million times. Weve all given you advice on what to do, so stop bringing it up
It's your past form. I would be thinking "Fucking hell, again? I was promised it would stop." I don't work with you and I'm sick of you
Kissmekate - you've had some really sound advice in this thread so do take the time to read back over it. As others have said, we all have to bite our tongues at work sometimes, it's about being professional and especially in a customer facing job you need to go out of your way to be polite and welcoming as well as do your best to get on with your colleagues and be a team player. After all, you might need a reference some day!
I wonder if picking up some hobbies and interests away from work might help to take your mind of these incidents, you seem to be playing them over and over in your head.
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