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(first post, be nice please?)
I'm 17 and I'm seeing this really nice guy (my age) for a few months now, but Ive recently started talking to my ex again (who is 20, and broke up with me cause he felt too uncomfortable because of my age and said maybe if I was a year or two older it would be fine) so we got talking and ended up staying over cause work was closer to his house and one thing led to another.. I've slept with him a few times now and I would break up with my current boyfriend in a heartbeat but I have a fear of being alone and I know my ex wont be with me for at least a few years, and by then he probably would have moved on. And I feel bad on my current guy cause its unfair on him and I feel like I'm neglecting him which is terrible cause he's so nice.
It seems simple, I know, stop talking to my ex and it'll be over, but there's a reason I'm writing this at 3 in the morning, It's driving me insane. I know he likes me so I can't keep away from him like I know I should.
Any advice will help, thank you.
I'm 17 and I'm seeing this really nice guy (my age) for a few months now, but Ive recently started talking to my ex again (who is 20, and broke up with me cause he felt too uncomfortable because of my age and said maybe if I was a year or two older it would be fine) so we got talking and ended up staying over cause work was closer to his house and one thing led to another.. I've slept with him a few times now and I would break up with my current boyfriend in a heartbeat but I have a fear of being alone and I know my ex wont be with me for at least a few years, and by then he probably would have moved on. And I feel bad on my current guy cause its unfair on him and I feel like I'm neglecting him which is terrible cause he's so nice.
It seems simple, I know, stop talking to my ex and it'll be over, but there's a reason I'm writing this at 3 in the morning, It's driving me insane. I know he likes me so I can't keep away from him like I know I should.
Any advice will help, thank you.
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and also the brain emotion thing is no excuse