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Advice on mums new boyfriend?
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Hey,
Really need some people to tell me what they would do if they were in my situation?
Basically since my mum and dad broke up she has had a lot of different boyfriends. I try to fit in with the new 'family' and struggle at first. when i finally get comfortable with them all my mum breaks up with them and gets to scared to settle down. Its weird but i actually miss a few of her ex's and there kids. I want to be able to have a 'family' but she never allows it. She has just got another new boyfriend and they seem happy enough. Do i try and get close and in with this family or do i just avoid it? I feel mean if i dont get involved because mum gets upset about it but equally i will get upset if i get close to them all then get pulled away. What would you guys do? Please give some opinions? Thanks
Really need some people to tell me what they would do if they were in my situation?
Basically since my mum and dad broke up she has had a lot of different boyfriends. I try to fit in with the new 'family' and struggle at first. when i finally get comfortable with them all my mum breaks up with them and gets to scared to settle down. Its weird but i actually miss a few of her ex's and there kids. I want to be able to have a 'family' but she never allows it. She has just got another new boyfriend and they seem happy enough. Do i try and get close and in with this family or do i just avoid it? I feel mean if i dont get involved because mum gets upset about it but equally i will get upset if i get close to them all then get pulled away. What would you guys do? Please give some opinions? Thanks
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