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16 and in love with my teacher...
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Hey,
Well basically I'm 16 and dating a man who works with in my school. He doesnt work for the school but runs a buisness which is based in the building. I know it sounds really dodgy but it's just how it is. Anyway I was wondering if anyone knows if it's illigal for me to be dating him? Since he's not employed by the school I assumed it was okay but now I'm unsure. Anyone know? Thanks
Well basically I'm 16 and dating a man who works with in my school. He doesnt work for the school but runs a buisness which is based in the building. I know it sounds really dodgy but it's just how it is. Anyway I was wondering if anyone knows if it's illigal for me to be dating him? Since he's not employed by the school I assumed it was okay but now I'm unsure. Anyone know? Thanks
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I'm not here to judge your relationship, and I wont, but if he is a lot older than you then please be careful. Do you parents know about the relationship?
I know it can be difficult telling parents about any relationship, but it needs to be done. You have to see it like this... if you need to hide it from your family, then really it probably isn't the best relationship to be in, because you're hiding it for a reason.
It's good you don't feel pressured but don't rush in to anything either. If it really is love he would wait for you to leave school, give you a few years before committing to anything so you have some time to work things out. -Your hormones could be what's confusing you at the moment, in a few years it may become a little clearer.
As for if it's legal or not, it doesn't look good on him morally. That may sound harsh but that's what I think. xx
Just saying you can't predict the future
But like SCC says, he sounds like a weirdo. Someone that age should know better.