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not doing too good
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If I treated someone really bad and they got angry with me (or otherwise had negative feelings towards me) how could they bring themselves to hold it in and treat everyone else good? I certainly can't. If I were angry with anyone, I'd treat everyone around me like shit. Hey, jsut sayin...
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To save you from making more of your useless threads: If you think someone is behaving weird and you would behave differently, just rest assured that 99% of this forum will agree with this 'someone' and think that you are out of line.
If you behave like this then people wont want to be around you. Why should other people put themselves at risk from your negative behaviour just because you cant control yourself?
If you cant control your behaviour then you a least need to be prepared to feel some sort of shame and be prepared to apologize for your behavior rather than acting like a tragic victim of other peoples meanness.
In the mean time, try the oldest trick in the book; count slowly to ten in your head to try and calm down before you react and think carefully before you do anything about the long-term effect it will have on that person and how they relate to you. If you really thought about how much it upsets you when someone is angry perhaps you would think twice before doing all these things that will clearly make them angry at you.
I always thought you are a guy.
Same
How come?
I thought you were fancying this kyra person. And, heteronormative as I am, this was - among other - a sign for being male.
I never "fancied" her. I just wanted to be friends, not get into a r-ship.
It is understandable for you to be angry and feel upset when someone treats you badly. However it is important to keep this anger and try to deal with it, looking at what was said to upset you. Taking it out on other people will not solve the situation and might make you think you will probably feel better - but at the end of the day the only way anger can get better is to face it!
You are always welcome to vent on thesite.org and this is what we are here for however should you feel you need further help and exploration, have a look a this article on dealing with anger, as well as perhaps contacting MIND and seeing if they can help.