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My reputation is ruined
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I live in a town of 50,000 but it seems to me like everyone seems to know the things I did and they don't like it. idk if I ever put that up here in detail, so I'll start w/ school. A girl named Jessica refused to be friends with me from DAY 1. Did it matter that everyone else initially talked to me? Not at that time. I tried to beg and bribe her to be my friend and then I cursed out everyone but Jessica bc I needed to let off steam. I also screamed obscenities in the coffee shop and then had a car accident on the way home bc I was just too angry. g2g to be continued...
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At Wal-Mart, Emma won't be my friend, so I begged her and paid her money, only to be written up for harassment. I also stood by the fitting room instead of working bc she worked in the nearby dept. I got poor eval for lack of productivity and was very angry. I also resisted ppl greeting bc that took away from pursuing Emma. In the end, I cursed out Melrose and physically assaulted the fitting room pole. Got canned for that.
Then the thing at McD's w/ Kyra...
And now it turns out that everyone knows each other. So my rep ruined? I think so.
It's not just here either, is it? How many other boards have you posted this on?
Are you truly looking for help with this issue, or are you actually seeking attention for something else, something deeper?
This is about school and work and how I'm never gonna be able to go back as long as I live here. Yes, I'm looking for answers.
We've given you proper answers but you're not paying attention to them, you just keeping asking the same question over and over
how to accept that not everyone is gonna like me and how to be satisfied w/ the ppl who did. I didn't even know nobody is liked by everyone until college. Al I slow?
yes I saw a counselor. Started when the Jessica thing happened.
i think u need to see them alot more
Go to a therapist or simply "Deal with it." Just stop caring and try to bear that someone does not like you and it will become easier with time. It's probably like stop smoking. You need to stay strong and just not do it, but after some time you are not missing it anymore.
Nothing else I can say, except sucks to be you. :razz:
That's cuz I live in America.
There is no 'answer' just try engaging your brain Things often don't just happen you have to apply some thought and effort yourself.
the meaning to life etc....which is obviously 42
Think you need a psychiatrist not a counsellor.
I just got started w/ a shrink lol
You also seem completely incapable of seeing this situation from your co-workers point of view. You don't seem to be able to make the link that if you throw tantrums and damage property it will upset people and make them want to avoid you. Instead you just feel like a victim and complain that it does not feel good to be ostracized. You have to grow up and start understanding the concept of actions = consequences if you are ever going to be taken seriously by anyone.
I do know that my meltdowns make others uncomfortable around me. Kyra prolly doesn't like me "harrassing" her to be my friend. And that was a place of business. They can't have someone putting their rage in there. So yeah, my actions have consequences.
As a matter of interest, what exactly was your 'reputation' in town before you 'ruined' it?
a good one. I used to have friends b4 I treated them like shit.
Before or after you started smoking weed?
I never smoked weed, but yeah, I had friends b4 my rage issues became a problem. And they only become a problem when I run into ppl like Kyra. y'kno who dislikes me for no reason.
Your user name suggests differently......
From everything you've ever written it seems you lose your temper with people over the smallest of things and then can't understand why people don't want to be near you. You say you're 21? Most people grow out of this sort of stuff before they leave school. The ones that don't are quite understandably ostracised/shunned by the rest of us.
Just wanna know y initially, everyone talked to me but her. I mean, I know she had her reason, but idk what it is since she hated me from DAY 1, before she even knew me. That's what's killing me. And how do you know my username don't mean angels made of stone? I seen those.
That's up there with "dog ate my homework" in the book of lame excuses.
Ok, my explanation of stoned is obviously not gonna work, so I'll just say I DON'T SMOKE WEED!!! lol