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He is just not good at oral..
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My boyfriend hardly ever goes down on me which annoys me cos I always give him head!! I mentioned this the other day and he went down on me, but to be honest..it was not good. Come to think of it, he has never really been that good at it. He is too hard if you know what I mean, and can be quite rough if you know what I'm saying girls. Not to get too graphic here but sometimes he nibbles me which I quite like, however he does it so rough that once I actually bled!!
I think deep down he knows that he isn't good at it and is almost embarressed because after 20mins of him going at it and me not having an orgasm, he moans that he can't keep going cos his tongue's aching! and when I gently try and tell him what I do like, he does it for a bit but then we are back to "babe, my tongue's aching." I suppose I subconsciously don't cum because I am worried that he is about to tell me he has to stop any moment. it's really upsetting me because I know that I am missing out on a good thing here. Oral sex can be amazing as I have heard from my friends and I just feel like I am missing out and not sure what to do...
I think deep down he knows that he isn't good at it and is almost embarressed because after 20mins of him going at it and me not having an orgasm, he moans that he can't keep going cos his tongue's aching! and when I gently try and tell him what I do like, he does it for a bit but then we are back to "babe, my tongue's aching." I suppose I subconsciously don't cum because I am worried that he is about to tell me he has to stop any moment. it's really upsetting me because I know that I am missing out on a good thing here. Oral sex can be amazing as I have heard from my friends and I just feel like I am missing out and not sure what to do...
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Also why dont you try 69 that whay you're both busy doing something and not so self conscious
believe me, he will learn quick
Or that
Don't wait until he's tired before telling him what to do.
Give him a book and tell him to learn how to do it.
on her I imagine