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masturbation???
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ok so the other day my friend thought it would be funny if i asked my boyfriend if hes ever masturbated thinking about me, i wouldnt ask him so she did. his responce to her was "why would i have tto, she does it for me" (which i dont and never have actually) but laterr he gave me the real answer. one time ssince we started dating...one time in a year. what exactly should i read into this?
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He may well have been brought up to think that nice girls think it's wrong, and having lied can't back out - and resents having been caught in the lie.
But regardless, if he's telling the truth about how often he does it there's no problem, and if he isn't, then your not going to find out how often you're the object of his emissions.
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Eeee, this is cheeky! If this is the case, I'll be having less sex with my boyfriend now.
I think that your example is the exception rather than the rule, Franki . I'm wouldn't be surprised if your ex was not being totally honest with you. So many guys are hung up about admitting to masturbating as if it is some sign of masculine weakness. How do you know he wouldn't make an excuse and crack one off while he pretended to use the bathroom? While guys love sex, sometimes all you want is a little 'me' time.
And going by the OP's age (15), I'd presume her boyfriend is quite young too and at that age, it's not 4 or 5 times a week but 4 or 5 times a day!!! :yippe:
So true. With a wank, in your head you could be fucking any girl you desire and in any scenario. Not just the girlfriend you have romantic sex with every couple of days.
Sorry if that's upsetting, but I guarantee this is true for most men though they probably won't admit it.
He was not that kind of person . He was very public and open about his sexual exploits to the point of embarrassment at times. He never came...ever...and most of his sexual enjoyment seemed to come from how much I was enjoying it.
But then again he was very weird. Saying that, current boyfriend doesn't masturbate very much at all, which is especially weird because he DOESN'T really get any (you know, problems and what not, we're working on it) otherwise. I don't really do it for him either.
i presume you havent read any of my previous threads, im 15, hes 16, and were both virgins, and about 4-5 times a day not weeks, thats what i thought. i honestly think theres no freaking way its one time in the past year!
Was he very open to you about how many wet dreams that he had, by any chance?
Oh I believe YOU, Franki. Honestly. I'm just not sure I believe HIM. If he didn't cum when having sex ... and he didn't wank ... what was his outlet for release? That's why I asked about whether he had wet dreams. If he didn't have those either, I would suggest that he might have a medical condition - and so was an exception to the rule. Anyway, I won't go on about it because I am not disputing your integrity. *hugs*
I know he was an exception, I brought it up because they do exist and maybe OP's boyfriend is one too .
It would take enourmos will power not to take things in hand not only that but constantly getting aroused with out relief would lead to an extremly painful condition.
I really think he is just saying what he thinks you would want to hear.
1)hes teelling the truth
2)hes completely lying but is afraid/uncmfortable to tell me truth
3)hes lying to show once again hes not like every other guy
4)why the hell do i care wat he does when hes alone, its harmless