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i want to know if there are any guys out there who are experienceing the same problem i have thinking that i am not big enough in size ! i am so upset is there anyone out there who i can talk to please help ! anyone ?:crying:
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how is it that a problem to do with penis size ! can be so upsetting
well all i can say is that it has tottally distraugt me i feel as though im not
worthy to anyone !!!! then saying that if i had been born gifted or v,w,e,
i wouldnt have faced this dilema !!! but really need to speak to someone who has the same problem please !!!:crying:
I've merged your two threads as you've posted about the same issue. Sorry to hear you're feeling so distressed. You may want to read our article does size matter? It's natural to worry but it's also worth bearing in mind that a lot of people, men and women, have insecurities about their bodies. Finding someone that you feel comfortable with and being able to talk openly about your worries will help you to feel more at ease when it comes to having sex. Try not to worry too much..
How big is it when erect?
Even knowing this, I spend half my time worrying mine's too small.
Plus there are oher, more effective ways to please a woman than penetration
Also, I've heard, men who think they're "it" because they've got a big dick are usually a bit shit in bed.
5 and a half inches is absolutely fine, you've got nothing to worry about. Now I wouldn't say I've seen a lot of cocks... but you know, I've seen a few, and I don't think I've ever encountered one that was 8 inches. I don't think I'd know what to do with it if I did! Sounds terrifying. I don't know why you've got it into your head that if it's less than 8 inches you're inadequate - if that's true then so are 95% of men.
Which they're not! 8 inches is abnormally large. 5 and a half is fine - I thought you were going to say 2 or 3 inches, which would be on the small side. Stop worrying about it, you're absolutely fine.
Only 90% of men, not 95%, and as its within two standard deviations of the mean it isn't abnormal.
Obviously 8 inches in not abnormal, and there are probably a fair few men with 8 inches or larger (though I'm kind of intrigued as to where you got the 1 in 10 figure!)
But it's...unusual, anyway, if not abnormal. Whereas 5.5 inches is usual.
can i just say a big thank you to the people !!! that replied to my dilema reading your replys has somewhat cheered me up alot !!! thanks again
When your actually having sex its not a problem cos your having such a good time and enjoying it and i think its then you realise that its not an issue?
Get over it mate cos if a girl loves you she wont care how big your dick is, its really not very high on the tick list, its not important, its your charecter that makes you a man.
A similair negative thought processes is, i wish i had a million pounds in the bank, life would be so great if only i win the lottery, WAKE UP, your not going to win it, this is your life now so live it and deal with it and make the most of what you have. Every moment spent worrying or wishing is a wasted moment thats destroying your future.
You need to be more optimistic and think im glad its not one inch is what i mean..err...what..hello.:nervous:
Yeah, I've heard good looking people are shit in bed too. Funnily enough, the people saying that aren't exactly an oil painting themselves.
Yeah, you've got a normal sized nob. Don't worry about it. And don't take porn as a reflection of reality. Basically, if they make a condom that fits, you can be pretty sure you're normal.
Ive slept with a few guys, luckily all various sizes down below!
ive slept with a guy who was 9 inches and didnt get any pleasure what so ever... mainly because he was clueless.
ive slept with a guy who was 8 inches and had quite alot of fun...
my ex boyfriend was about 6 inches and we had a great sex life for 3 years...
and my boyfriend now is about 7 inches and again we have fantastic sex...
size really doesnt matter. it is the way that men use them!
5.5 really isnt small! its average! if i were you id stop worrying about it, worrying isnt going to change it! just grow to feel confident with what you have! like someone has already said, size isnt important. its the chemistry between two people when they are having sex. I hope everyones replies have helped you feel a little bit better but please- your worrying over nothing x
a poor workman always blames his tools and dont let any one tell you it too small if you lean to master it the girls will love it so take your time getting to know your mate in your pants and how to use him and enjoy the apprenticeship :thumb:
It's not your size, it's your speed....
well I am fast.. I mean not too fast.. not like wham bam thank you ma'am. I mean, I do say thank you, it's polite. I.. hmm.. *leaves thread*
That has Made.My.Day and it is only quater to 8.
Xx
You can be polite to me any day
Large hard-on collider, don't you mean?
people and their girlfriends also have been shown that they systematically round up or just make it up completely, in the sense that the average 'reported' penis size is 7 inches. the real average depending on your racial background etc. is anywhere between 5 and 6.5.
this is because of implicit societal expectations to have the biggest cock in the room.
in reality its a bit more like this:
(note that more than 50% are less than 6". Whenever it's come up on any forum anywhere including here I'm sure, not a single person has normally admitted to being below that. Turns out all the cool big dicks hang out on the internet.
Presumably the ones with normal size penises are too busy getting laid!
Excuse my ignorance but doesn't a larger penis make for smoother, longer 'strokes' without the penis popping out during the outward motion of the thrust?
It must be frustrting as well if it pops out all the time.
I imagine the size of the couple has a bearing to though if they were both fairly large wouldnt it be harder with a smaller willy i mean to big tummys are gona mean your bits are further apart or am i realy naive.