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girly q!
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okay i'm sort of embarassed but i need answers for valentines i thought i'd treat a special err someone to nice underwear, stockings and suspenders and that whole shebang. iv bought a really nice top which is like the pic attached (but nicer haha). it has those straps at the bottom to attach to stockings BUT. how do you attach them?!
what stockings do i buy just any? iv looked and looked at the strap (the suspender i guess?!) and i cant work out how it would attach on without just pulling off. iv never worn them before. i googled it hoping for an 'easy guide to stockings' but i got nothing haha. any help would be appreciated. x
what stockings do i buy just any? iv looked and looked at the strap (the suspender i guess?!) and i cant work out how it would attach on without just pulling off. iv never worn them before. i googled it hoping for an 'easy guide to stockings' but i got nothing haha. any help would be appreciated. x
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You put the rubber plug behind the material of the top of the suspender, then you put the ring part over the top of the suspender at the largest part of the ring's hole and pull it down to the small part, where it catches.
Ta da.
As for stockings, just buy some you like - I like ones with seams down the back personally but it's down to your preference. I think sheer black with seams would look amazing with a top like the one in the picture, or classic fishnets - whatever you like. Don't forget the killer heels :thumb:
i hate putting on bloody stockings and suspenders. i love wearing them (as does my man!!! haha!) but it takes me ages to put them on. the front ones are easy to attach but the back ones are quite a pain!
oooo and yes, go with what stupidgirl has suggested, add the heels. all men love that. well, at least my man does!
have fun
im not sure about heels as i only own one pair haha and im not sure whether my fella would appreciate it?! maybe!
Nice one! Did you make a decision on the heels? I never feel better about myself than when wearing high heels - they make your legs look longer and your body look slimmer, which is all good in my book. But it's up to you and whether you'll feel comfy in them
i think men just like heels to be honest. my man asks me to wear heels quite alot i wouldn't mind but its hard walking in heels on a carpet and its bloody difficult to balance yourself sometimes haha!
i'd definately add the heels if you can though fireyfirenze. it makes you feel super sexy and the men love it! it kinda completes the look too!
whyy, do you not put your knickers on under the set? under the suspenders? they would look silly over the top?!
I thought that too, the knickers surely would go under the set I agree they'd look weird over the top!
As for the heels, that's fair enough. Although you could always secrete the heels in your bag, sneak off to the bathroom at a convenient point in the evening and put them on then. All depends on how you're planning to reveal your surprise though haha
Err... not quite sure how to explain this without blushing, but it kinda depends on how long you're planning to have the suspenders on vs. the knickers...
Knickers *over* the suspenders? Just can't see how that works!
i can't ever imagine wearing them on top of the suspenders? you'd look pretty silly!