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Help... do I wait or walk away??
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Hi, my name is Sally I need some advice about this guy I have being seeing. We've been together for some time now, but it's a big secret.
This was good to start with since I had just come out of a relationship, and he was still in his relationship( I know I'm a bad person). In the begining, we were only meeting up for sex but then we started spending more time together and it turned into more than just that. Since November we have been together, without seeing other people. I really do want to be with him but my friends think that he will always be a player. He says he is not ready to tell everyone, my ex is his friend and all our friends know each other. Should I go with my feelings and wait til he is ready to come out to everyone? Or I am wasting my time, like my friends think?!? Any advise is welcome, thanks
This was good to start with since I had just come out of a relationship, and he was still in his relationship( I know I'm a bad person). In the begining, we were only meeting up for sex but then we started spending more time together and it turned into more than just that. Since November we have been together, without seeing other people. I really do want to be with him but my friends think that he will always be a player. He says he is not ready to tell everyone, my ex is his friend and all our friends know each other. Should I go with my feelings and wait til he is ready to come out to everyone? Or I am wasting my time, like my friends think?!? Any advise is welcome, thanks
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