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Why is it when I get a date with a nice girl, something has to go and spoil it? In this case it's in the form of my clingy ex.
I have a date tomorrow night with a nice girl I met in my local SU. Everything was going great with her and I saw her this afternoon so I thought I'd have a chat with her to make sure we are still on for tomorrow night. She said yes and continued to chat to me. She is really funny and we were having a laugh until I look over her shoulder and see somebody walking towards me. My ex.
An awkward moment if there ever was one.
I thought I'd intorduce them to each other, but turns out they already know each other. Hmmmm... when we were together she never mentioned to me that she had a step sister!
All the girls I ever go out with are liars. Why does this happen to me?
Anyway, while the three of us were having a cosy little chat, my ex thought she'd explain to her sister that I was the guy who she had been moaning about for the past 3 months. What an advertisement that was for me. After that, she then proceeded to tell us both that she still loves me and if I ever thought about going out with another girl while she still has these feelings for me, then I'm heartless and she will make both of our lives hell.
Psycho much?
I am seriously thinking about giving up on women all together...
I have a date tomorrow night with a nice girl I met in my local SU. Everything was going great with her and I saw her this afternoon so I thought I'd have a chat with her to make sure we are still on for tomorrow night. She said yes and continued to chat to me. She is really funny and we were having a laugh until I look over her shoulder and see somebody walking towards me. My ex.
An awkward moment if there ever was one.
I thought I'd intorduce them to each other, but turns out they already know each other. Hmmmm... when we were together she never mentioned to me that she had a step sister!
All the girls I ever go out with are liars. Why does this happen to me?
Anyway, while the three of us were having a cosy little chat, my ex thought she'd explain to her sister that I was the guy who she had been moaning about for the past 3 months. What an advertisement that was for me. After that, she then proceeded to tell us both that she still loves me and if I ever thought about going out with another girl while she still has these feelings for me, then I'm heartless and she will make both of our lives hell.
Psycho much?
I am seriously thinking about giving up on women all together...
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Yeah hence how she is my ex.
I realised pretty quickly that she wasn't the girl for me. No wonder when she behaves like that.
:grump:
x Andy
Well possibly. But I wouldn't put it past her.
She is a pretty crazy bitch.
I can say that about her without feeling bad because she has put me through so much shit.
x Andy
That was my plan. So my date tomorrow was obviously ruined after that.
But I'm not too sure why she does it. She's always been a little crazy like that.
I have to give it to her, she gives an awesome first impression.
x Andy
But maybe she is trying to test you, i mean if she still likes you then to her mucking up any date you have only leaves her for you...?
...which is kinda werid
but i guess that might backfire if she needs the attention..
arg! hard situation
I'm staying as far away from her as I can.
I hate it how she can get away with stuff like that.
x Andy
yeah, i say ignore her and get on with things like it hasn't even happened. Then to her it looks like you don't care, she might put up a bit of resistance but if you still ignore her then she is likely to get the picture and leave you alone.
Hope so.
Thanks guys!
x Andy
Man that girl can push my buttons.
She started to beg for us to get back together but I wasn't having it. As always, she wouldn't take no for an answer.
Eventually I just said very firmly "Leave me alone and don't talk to me. The sooner you're out of my life the sooner I can be happy again. Don't you understand I don't want to be with you? You make me so unbelievably unhappy. Just leave me alone!"
It was needed to be said, but now I feel awful.
I shouldn't have spoken to her like that.
She just fell silent and hung up.
Oh God I'm going to hell. And if I don't, I'm sure she'll see to it.
Did I do the right thing?????
x Andy
Thank you.
Have to say it was bloody difficult, but it is actually a bit of a relief.
So long I've wanted to tell her to F... erm Fuff off.
I didn't actually use those words but you get the point
x Andy
Thanks
x Andy
Hmmm Precious, I was thinking. I think I might know you from somewhere?
Maybe not because I don't actually know anything about you.
Long shot I think but it'd be pretty awesome if you were who I think you are
x Andy
A small consideration though - what's the deal with her and her step-sister? How did you meet your new girl? The fact that they're family seems a bit coincidental, no? Could the step-sister just be using you to get at her if there's bad feeling between them?
I don't want to sound suspicious by the way; just make sure you don't end up caught as a pawn in their games. All the best with it x
Yeah well that's exactly what I thought! I'm sure it must have been planned or something.
I was with my ex for almost a year and she told me she had a brother, which I knew about, but I only ever met her mum. She told me about her dad leaving her mum and having a new wife but she never said anything else about it and I didn't ever want to bring it up.
I met my ex in a club, because she doesn't go to uni, but I met her sister in my SU. From what I can gather they get on all right, but then it's weird how they didn't tell me about each other.
Either way I'm steering clear of both of them.
And thanks.
x Andy
How would it?
I might know you but have just forgotten! You never know lol
Haha but I think it might be her... although I've been wrong about things like that before.
x Andy
You never know! we could be neigbours! haha
Hahah I hope so :thumb:
x Andy
I could help you with your scottish slang.
Oh aye that'd be grand!
Get me sorted oot like!
Haha that wasn't meant to sound bad btw lol!
x Andy
Hahaha
Holy coo that wis a wee bit loopy. I deh hink ma slang wis that bad really bit i hae a wee feelin its no tae braw...
That honestly feels like I'm speaking a foreign language, and you have no idea how many times I had to read that thread for it to make sense! haha
x Andy
Yes I guess it is!
I'm still not completely sure what that is meant to say but I'm having a wild guess haha
This thread is just turning into a conversation now lol
It's quite fun.
x Andy