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Lifes falling apart and i dont know what to do.
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Hello everyone. this is my first time on here but im desperatly looking for some help. my whole world is falling apart and i feel like theres nothing i can do about it. iv been with my boyfriend for six years now. i have a daughter whos not his but we have a two and a half year old boy together. for the last six months or so things have been getting bad between us. we dont talk or do anything together, he would rather be at work or doing anything else just so hes not at home with me. he loves the kids to bits but we seem to have got stuck in a rutt as they say. last thursday he finaly told me hes not happy and he doesnt know if hes with me because of the kids or not. he says he feels dead inside about everything at the mo and he doesnt want to hurt me but he just doesnt know if this is working or not. we have agreed that he will move into his mums for a while and i will stay in the house so the kids are not dissrupted through all this. iv told him i will do what ever it takes and hes agreed that while hes not living with me me will still see each other. im total heartbroken at the thought he doesnt want me anymore but he says he doesnt know how he feels so is there hope that i can rekindle our love and if so how do i go about doing it. i just dont know what i can do to save this please help me. x x
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I'm not sure if there's much you can do. It sounds like he needs to sort some things out in his head. Would you consider seeing a relationship councillor?
If you don't mind me asking, was your sex life affected?
I'm sorry to say it, but I think it's over.
Look into Relate, they specialise in relationship counselling.