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Am I Strange..?
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Hi
I'm not sure if I posted this in the correct place (?)
I admit I'm a Virgin, but I used to Self-Harm, and today was just strange..!
My best friend, who I actually like, but I hate the feel of pain on my arm now and My friend told me as a joke that he can do tattoos, I asked him to demonstrate it on my arm snd he dug the nib of the pen(Which can give me ink poisoning) right into my arm and I actually liked it, I felt kinda turned on for some reason and I havnt admitted it to him =/ although I told my other friend she was surprised that I found someone knew, I dont think she paid enough attention though....
So, sorry for blabbing on&on but I wanna know if this is strange, especially for a 13yr.old =|
Hannah
I'm not sure if I posted this in the correct place (?)
I admit I'm a Virgin, but I used to Self-Harm, and today was just strange..!
My best friend, who I actually like, but I hate the feel of pain on my arm now and My friend told me as a joke that he can do tattoos, I asked him to demonstrate it on my arm snd he dug the nib of the pen(Which can give me ink poisoning) right into my arm and I actually liked it, I felt kinda turned on for some reason and I havnt admitted it to him =/ although I told my other friend she was surprised that I found someone knew, I dont think she paid enough attention though....
So, sorry for blabbing on&on but I wanna know if this is strange, especially for a 13yr.old =|
Hannah
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I should speak to someone about it but I dont want to much attention like last time and it's embarrassing talking about sex in-front of your parents... especially if it's something I've done, They'd never expect me to do something like that =[
I suppose not, some people like pain which is why people use whips and bondage etc during sex, each to their own and that. Although that is more something adults do, at thirteen it is a little young but it's not weird, everyone likes different things and there is no shame to be turned on by something (well some things there are) but not that.
While pain is within the normal range of things that turn people on, it might not be the pain that is turning you on.
It is possible that it is the intimacy, him (unknowingly) sharing in this private experience of yours that is turning you on.
So What your saying is that when I used 2 self-harm I would be used to only me doing it with him not knowing it he continued to do it and I just got used to the fact and let him hurt me anyway? Next time (hopefully) he doesnt do it then =[
Thanks very much for your help peeps =P
oohhh, right thank you, tbh i'm not that smart =P
Sorry bout blabbing
Yes, actually, I think it has.
The combination of mild pain and pleasure just feels nice. Most people like it or would like it but it's not something people would try.
It's different if you were into severe pain which would either mean your brain is wired in a strange way as some people actually feel pleasure from extreme pain. Or it would mean that you're unhappy and the severe pain provides a release.
It sounds like you got some pleasure from the experience rather than a release from hurting yourself so IMO it's not something to worry about.
It's not anything to do with that, I'm just not one of those sluts in my school, even my friends are virgins, they're 12-14 and I dont mind -.-
Plus not many people actually like me in that way..
Btw, thanks for advice guys ! =D
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