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hi
ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we recently moved in together but i have fallen for my next door neighbour. I see him daily and we have become friends, everytime i look or talk to him i get butterflies in my stomach. i think about him all the time and even fall asleep thinking about him. I cant decide if its just lust because of the commitment of moving in with my boyfriend or i do actually love him.
My boyfriend and me have been rocky from the start and at the moment all we do is fight. I dont feel the same way about him anymore. Im so confused.
ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we recently moved in together but i have fallen for my next door neighbour. I see him daily and we have become friends, everytime i look or talk to him i get butterflies in my stomach. i think about him all the time and even fall asleep thinking about him. I cant decide if its just lust because of the commitment of moving in with my boyfriend or i do actually love him.
My boyfriend and me have been rocky from the start and at the moment all we do is fight. I dont feel the same way about him anymore. Im so confused.
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I think first it's good that you've recognised that it might just be because you've made a commitment step. Maybe the thrill in this neighbour is the knowledge that you can't have them? Since you're now living with your boyfriend maybe the idea of someone else is exciting to you.
You really need to consider how you really feel about this boyfriend. Were you ready to move in with him or were you just going with the flow?
maybe sort that first
n the neighbour thing..its best to call it a day wit ur BF or..block the feelings for him.
Surely that is doomed?!
/e: lol g_angel, same thought.
The chances are that you and yr bf are arguing all the time at the moment because you weren't ready to move in together.
thank you, i have decided to stay at a friends for a while, i dont see a future with him, i am only 22 so im not looking to settle down, it was meant to be care free but some how it became serious and its not what i wanted