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Hi just want advice frm any1 im bi but got fella 8yr+4mth +2 daughters at the mo so attracted to girls ALOT i love guys+girls+my partner knows i like girls id love 2 have gf on side what do u think?:yippe:
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The latter - not a good route to take imo. secrecy and lies generally tend to show themselves in the end, people get hurt and happiness is jeapodised.
That said though, your call..
Its a nice fantasy to have, another person to fulfil your sexual needs but you have to consider, will it only be for sex?, would the third party be ok with that? how would you and your partner feel if the other person developed feelings for you or you for them?
Its a big ask for someone to have an intimate relationship with you and be exclusive to you but know you have someone else in your life, how would you feel about your girlfriend dating and being intimate with another woman or man at the same time as being intimate with you. Would you allow your partner to have a relationship with someone else to fulfill their sexual fantasies?
You have already have a fuck buddy, apparently, so I don't see what difference it makes.
I would be surprised if he doesn't mind you having spare man-love on the side but would object to you going with women.
Could you not just try a threesome?
Itd be a new thing 4 your relationship and you would get to be with a girl.
I'm not sure your background but if you have some sort of doubt it's best to approach the situation with your partner and rather than make him feel like you're missing out make it seem like something you might like to try....
however, are your needs that important that they need to fuck about with your relationship.... sounds a bit evil but at the end of the day you have others to think about. Good Luck
A tricky one, and I feel for you. I think you need to think really carefully about what you really want. Are you interested in just having some fun, or are you talking about really changing your lifestyle, your future, and your children's future?
I can't say what is right or wrong because I don't know you or the details of your situation, but I think you need to talk to someone in the know before you start making any rash decisions. You could try The D'arcy Lainey Foundation, who offer help for bi-sexual parents and their children, or Relate, who can offer support for couples in need.
I hope everything works out well and you have a really great 2009.
Hugs,
S x
Hi sarah lou thank u so much comment i know if i did take next step+be totally with 1 girl have be realy summit i dnt think i would because of my kids i got 2 best friends gay +the other got 3yr daughter i can talk to