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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Convincer i am looking for 100% happy ending but i seriously doubt it will. but i have to try anyway or ill never know if she would or not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ^^ Well, all things must run their course. Not ever knowing is worse than rejection, believe me. You actually get over rejection, eventually. Plus, not trying means you give yourself a 100% chance of not getting the girl.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah exactly i only want to up my chances of getting her but their is lots of reasons why she could say no

    more than yes to be honest

    Any1 know how i can counter the statement '' i dont want to be hurt anymore''?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know. It depends on what she claims you've done to hurt her. Does she give any reasons?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well what ive done is

    Not replied fully on msn like id reply with a few word answers where she writes loads and i used to write loads


    and i dont see her often enough coz im a PC addict which is a serious problem


    thats what ive done

    but im sure most people beg their ex gf/bf for forgiveness and oh ill change but i actually will and i dont want to hurt her

    but i need a decent counterstatement for ''i dont wanna get hurt anymore'' coz lets face it every1 gets hurt in relationships at least once
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not sure, because it's a pretty bold statement to promise not to hurt somebody. If I was you, I'd just tell her that you understand that you didn't pay her as much attention as you should have done but that you'll try harder because since splitting up you've done nothing but think about getting back with her. Quite simply, you care about her a lot and you'll try harder.

    Just my two cents, but I really can't see any other approach other than to admit your faults and pledge to try harder.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah me neither dude ok i admit your helping more now :]

    i got like 5 days left to work out what im gonna say thats it really
    i just hope to god this goes right then id be over the moon

    i dont ask for much off my parents or out of my life i just want to be happy n i dont belive in god but if there is one
    it would be amazing if he came through for me. which sounds weird for me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I wish you all the best.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers any more advice would help :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Think the only thing you can do is apoligize and tell her things will be different if she takes you back. This may or may not work. If she takes you back great, if not you will have learned a good lesson that you cannot neglect your girl. And even if it doesn't work out your young still, you will have more then a few relationships.
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