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Also, the only reason I was talked out of it was because I knew that I would come back eventually and because I knew that I was over-emotional. Had I genuinely wanted to delete my account I would have done, but that wasn't the point. The point was that he said it was a last resort. It's not a last resort if you do it three times, is it? If she doesn't want her personal information on a public messageboard then she shouldn't post it, I'm sorry. I've had people find my account on here and I've had my parents reading things on here about me I didn't like but I knew that that was the risk I took when I made the account.
I've been holding my tongue for far too long but tbh James I think you are very naive when it comes to her. I'm sorry, but it has to be said.
I can genuinely only think of three accounts which has been removed, unless you can remember more? The timescale is irrelevant, Matt had all his posts deleted twice in three months without barely a single complaint.
People change, people no longer want their info online, plenty of people have had accounts removed for the very reason.
Would I delete all my posts myself? No - why would I remove 17000 myself when I know the mods/admins can do it in about 3 clicks?
The fact remains, whether a last resort or not if someone wants personal information removed Jim can't turn it down. Hes said as much himself.
I am not naive, and I find it genuinely depressing that you think so. I'm just so so so so fed up of you two always at each other, even when she leaves. I just dont understand why it cant just be forgotten as the past.
I wouldn't. I didn't complain when MattLiverpool had his posts cleared twice in less than 3 months. She isn't my best mate anyway - I don't think my flatmate and uni buddies would be happy for one.
Three times though? If that was the reason she wouldn't have put it back up again would she.
She didn't have 17,000. IIRC she barely had 1000. Also, I think it highly disrespectful to ask the mods to remove her account completely three times. I thought accounts were generally deleted on the understanding that the person wouldn't be returning?
And the fact remains that if she has done it three times in a short space of time it does look a bit like a cry for attention. Weren't her last two accounts deleted because somebody found out about them? In that case, why did she then go on to post pictures of herself all the time and links to her Facebook and other things which could make that happen again? No offence, but surely that would be a bit stupid.
Do you know what I'm so so so so fed up of? I'm fed up of people always making ME out to be the bad guy in this whole shitty thing. Tell me ONE TIME James where I have EVER said anything truly offensive to her which wasn't in any way provoked, either by her being rude to me, her invading MY PRIVACY, or her being offensive to other people that are my friends? ONE TIME?! Other than the post I made in that stupid fucking what have you eaten thread last week I can think of fuck all. I was quite happy to forget about "the past" when she rejoined as lacrymosa and I was perfectly civil to her and I was NOT the one who started this shit up again. In fact I was not the one that started this shit up in the first place so fuck off making me look like I'm at fault.
Yes you are naive, and I could give you a whole list of reasons why, but I know you won't listen so I'm not going to bother.
But anyway, I think it's best this is closed now - padlock time indeed.