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JsT wrote: »
Shes only did it three times in nearly 8 years, its hardly a regular day-to-day occurence. Still, I'm sure Jim tried to talk her out of it, but if she didn't want to stay then fair play, they can't really keep people personal information when its not vital and they want it deleted. Clearly you were talked out of it too easily. Plenty of people have had accounts deleted (and I can think of more than once when the same person has done it twice) and nothings ever been said so why the massive agression with everyone. I really dont see the big deal - clearly there are other agendas at play here with plenty of people.
Still the question was asked and answered and the problem solved, time for everyone to put their handbags away.
Franki wrote: »
She hasn't been here 8 years, she joined after I did. And it's not like it was three times over the whole period of her being here, it's three times in like a year. If she wanted to leave, then what was stopping her deleting her own posts and information? If people have found out about her TheSite life again then what difference is deleting her account going to make?
Also, the only reason I was talked out of it was because I knew that I would come back eventually and because I knew that I was over-emotional. Had I genuinely wanted to delete my account I would have done, but that wasn't the point. The point was that he said it was a last resort. It's not a last resort if you do it three times, is it? If she doesn't want her personal information on a public messageboard then she shouldn't post it, I'm sorry. I've had people find my account on here and I've had my parents reading things on here about me I didn't like but I knew that that was the risk I took when I made the account.
I've been holding my tongue for far too long but tbh James I think you are very naive when it comes to her. I'm sorry, but it has to be said.
omg hi wrote: »
i don't want to be a twat because i loves ya but james you're only saying that because she is your best mate, if it was anyone else you'd be sounding off.
JsT wrote: »
I can genuinely only think of three accounts which has been removed, unless you can remember more? The timescale is irrelevant, Matt had all his posts deleted twice in three months without barely a single complaint.
People change, people no longer want their info online, plenty of people have had accounts removed for the very reason.
Would I delete all my posts myself? No - why would I remove 17000 myself when I know the mods/admins can do it in about 3 clicks?
The fact remains, whether a last resort or not if someone wants personal information removed Jim can't turn it down. Hes said as much himself.
I am not naive, and I find it genuinely depressing that you think so. I'm just so so so so fed up of you two always at each other, even when she leaves. I just dont understand why it cant just be forgotten as the past.