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OK so my gf and I got a room at a hotel for Valentine's Day as you do, and we had sex. I was really stupid though and didn't wear a condom. I didn't come inside her or anything, I put a condom on later and continued and eventually finished in the condom. I went into the bathroom and got rid of it, and also got a wet cloth and wiped my penis with it to try and clean it all off. After that I went back and we had some more sex, without condom again I still didn't cum inside though. Did it once more after that with a condom on.
I'm really shitting myself - what are the chances she might be pregnant? I'm really really worried She is getting a test, but the wait is painful :crying:
I'm really shitting myself - what are the chances she might be pregnant? I'm really really worried She is getting a test, but the wait is painful :crying:
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If you had condoms, why weren't you using them straight away?
See user name.
As I think you know, your methods of contraception were fairly rubbish, and there's a reasonable chance that your girlfriend could have got pregnant, depending on many things, including where she is in her cycle.
Valentines day was Thursday right? So assume you are talking about Thursday night. The Morning After Pill (MAP) can be used up to 72 hours after unprotected sex (which is what you had) but that window has now passed. The coil can sometimes be used as emergency contraception for up to 5 days after unproected sex (so you're still in that window).
I suggest your girlfriend/both of you, get in touch with an expert, maybe ring the FPA helpline and see a doctor/nurse first thing tomorrow morning.
Do you know when her period is due?
So if you use it as your main method of contraception in a year, then in that year there is a 15-28% chance of conception.
Here's another link for you:
http://www.contraceptivetechnology.com/table.html
so valentines day is actually slap bang in the middle of her fertile time. :chin:
I think youre going to have to wait and cross fingers and if she doesnt come on then take a pregnancy test then.
Thats really quite high isnt it.
get her tested and pray for the best and next time use them straight away...
No need. Harsh mate.
That is so unnecessary - No One DESERVES a pregnancy, it's not some punishment for doing something wrong.
Get a fucking grip and get over yourself.
Completely out of order. This is an advice thread not a fucking preaching thread.
There are some sections of this board that allow people to be more 'agressive' in their viewpoints - such as politics and debate - but if someone is posting for advice in a section of this board for support (such as sex or health) then they should be able to expect responses to be at the very least supportive.
That doesn't mean that views can't be challenged - but the idea of saying that someone 'deserves' to get pregnant is really not what this section is for - please bear in mind where on TheSite you are posting, and the offense comments can cause before deciding to post judgemental posts.
Let's move on though - as someone deserves more support than posting in reaction to an unpleasant and ill-judged post will give.
the post just read itself like "jumped out of the window, it hurt! jumped again, hurt again!"
apologies...
But its like cracking one off over someone when you have had pent up sexul urges, and then when you finally come, you stop texting or talking to them on msn, and wonder why you got all excited in the first place.
In laymans terms "when needs must" :P
Anyways OP hmm all you can do is wait, hope and pray.
My boyfriend and I have been in similar situations to this, yes it's stupid but at the time weve been so caught up in it or drunk
All I can say is I hope everything works out
it happens
thats what i was on about
Shit happens dunt it.