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my girlfriend dumped me the other day by a text message. i havent seen her since and i love her so much and im so upset. she says that she still wants to be friends with me but im not sure if i want to be because i know that it wont be the same. she didnt even give me a very good reason why she broke up with me.
she told me today that she is really sorry and that she misses me but she is confused at the moment.:(
dont know what to do
she told me today that she is really sorry and that she misses me but she is confused at the moment.:(
dont know what to do
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Sorry to read your message. Sending a text message is such a horrible way to break up with someone! It sounds like you really care about this girl, and it's totally understandable that you'd be feeling upset and confused right now.
All I can say is give it time, and for now, just focus on looking after yourself. In time, she might be clearer about what she wants, or she might be able to give you an explanation. As you say, being mates with an ex-girlfriend can be difficult, so take time to consider if this is what you really want or if you'd like to cease contact, and have some space for a while.
We're here if you want to vent. Take care.
Don't do her the favor and be her friend however. It will just break you, seeing her all the time, hearing from her being happy and stuff. Save yourself some trouble and cut contact. you don't need a friend like that, nor does she deserve one like you.
I kinda agree. Her wanting to remain 'friends' sounds like it might be so she can alleviate any guilt that she may have over dumping you in this way. If you are really cut up about this, distance is the best policy until your heart has mended.
Haha that doesn't help you really though does it. Its cool she thinking of herself and putting herself 1st. You just do same and make sure you are looking after number 1 :thumb: