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can you have an abortion after
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2 months? hes belly is big ect.
BTW THIS IS FOR A FRIEND AND NOT MY LOVER OR SHAG FRIEND
BTW THIS IS FOR A FRIEND AND NOT MY LOVER OR SHAG FRIEND
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In the future make sure your friend uses protection if not already. Abortions are not a nice thing to have to go through and if she doesn't even know the basic facts like the time limit on having such procedures then maybe she shouldn't be having sex. I'm not having a go, it's an awful decision to have to make and position to be in but she needs to be a little more responsible in the future.
If your friend wants a termination, she should seek help asap and get the gestation confirmed.
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/safersex/unplannedpregnancy/abortion
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/safersex/unplannedpregnancy/impregnantwhatnow
Why?
eekk, I hope you don't mean what I think you mean.
How do you mean she shouldn't be having one at all?
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Give her chance to explain what she meant my love
Wow. Get off your high horse and come down with the commoners, missy. Life isn't as simple as that. I like to the think I am as educated as the next person, but I haven't used a condom/pill a few times without getting pregnant in the past - I am not advocating my method WHATSOEVER - I know it's silly but the heat of the moment gets the better of you.
You're human after all, you wouldn't be given all the different emotions to allow these reactions to different situations had you not been human in the first place.
Anyways, this girl or her mate or anyone whoever it maybe have absolutely every right to have an abortion. If she's got the right to have sex without protection - daft, I know - then she has the right to whatever happens to her body, as do you.
You don't have any right whatsoever to dictate, advise of course but fuck off with the dictating process. She's probably having harsh enough time as it is without you calling her pig-ignorant? Look in the mirror, mate.
Welcome to the world, it's diverse and cosy. You're gonna love it.
get fucking educated yourself. It took me 8 months to concieve having sex at least twice a day EVERY day of the month.
NO contraceptive is 100%, and what the hell right have you got to tell a woman she has to go through pregnancy and childbirth just because of an accident or because you personally find abortion distasteful?
If youre against abortion - thats fine - dont have one!
The cut off point is 24 weeks gestation - the time when they have a chance of survival if born - before that theyre there purely by the goodwill of the woman carrying it, and thats the way it needs to stay. Ive got pregnant by accident and kept the baby too. Ive also got pregnant by accident and had an abortion. Ive also got pregnant with a much wanted baby and lost the baby. Ive also got pregnant with a much wanted baby and kept him.
I dont see what mine or your personal decisions on what we did with each of our individual pregnancies have got to do with what someone else wants to do with their own body.
This is a support issue, not the debating forum and your comments are innappropriate,
Here, here.
THANK YOU
and thanks to the others who helped me too.
Best of luck to your friend. Make sure you give her the support she needs because it's probably going to be a tough time.
I think it was aimed at Babyworms.
i would like you to still keep this believe when you are pregnant, and you have no money, no house, no one to look out for you.
its very easy to have an opinion on something you have not experienced