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Te he, ok, sorry. I don't actually mean all pagans though, just the ones who have performed the handfasting ceremony. It's up to them to decide how long they are joining for, their choice, not some outsider like a politician telling them they obviously don't know their own mind, which is how I feel the seven year policy comes across.
ETA: Have I missunderstood? Do the couple specify the term at the handfasting ceremony or do they just continue in those increments?
I know, smart-ass.
My useful contribution.
On another point, do people take marriage too seriously these days? It's a contract, a lovely one at that, but why can't they keep it simple? You both belong to each other until such time as one declares they don't want to and can prove they're not just going through a phase.
A 7 sear thingy mabboby seems a waste of time, more red tape and needless. I know people complain about marriage in the sense people get taken advantage of but thats the point of marriage - you should marry someone you love and trust completely.
If you partner does a runner with the milkman and then takes the BMW and your money it's your fault for signing a contract with someone who wasn't trustworthy. Why it's good to think about potential partners and not rush into marriage like everyone seems to want to these days because they get caught upp in the honeymoon period.