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would you/could you be with someone that doesnt respect you?
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Best get rid now, IMO.
And without respect, how can there be a healthy relationship?
Men llike that really annoy me...my ex was exactly the same, ended up dumping me because he preferred a single life where he didn't have to think of anyone else, and I really regret not finishing things with him - months before he ended it.
Try the talking thing if you want, but make sure you don't let him butter you up with saying he loves you or is sorry - don't let crap like that wash with you, make sure you let him know in no uncertain terms that you're not a doormat and deserve respect - and if you don't get it, you'll leave.
Then give him 2 weeks. If nothing changes, get out and don't look back.
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but NEVER EVER give an ultimatum that you won't be able to follow through.