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..Always a great subject :thumb: But seriously, when I first had sex and we split up, all of a sudden I realised I knew nothing about this man I had slept with, nothing intimate anyway as you can imagine we hadn't been seeing each other THAT long, but I thought it would be best if I got myself checked out, I didn't think it would be that bad realising it would be quite uncomfortable.
So, I book my appointment, gear myself up and it starts and I can quite safely say I have never in my life experienced such pain as that was, I laugh when I look back, but it was so painful that when it stopped and I got up I fainted and going home in the car I just felt so horrible I was in tears and just couldn't or didn't want to feel down there at all, and I was actually wondering if other females have had this problem? It was my first and probably wont be my last but do they really hurt THAT much, or was it the cruel woman doctor..(after being advised later, that males are much more gentle) :no:
So, I book my appointment, gear myself up and it starts and I can quite safely say I have never in my life experienced such pain as that was, I laugh when I look back, but it was so painful that when it stopped and I got up I fainted and going home in the car I just felt so horrible I was in tears and just couldn't or didn't want to feel down there at all, and I was actually wondering if other females have had this problem? It was my first and probably wont be my last but do they really hurt THAT much, or was it the cruel woman doctor..(after being advised later, that males are much more gentle) :no:
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Yeah, I mean maybe it was me tensing up but it was so painful I was literally screaming with pain telling her to stop, I think she's just one of those rough doctors, as soon as I got dressed again I sat down and fainted she woke me up asked me If I was okay, etc, I just sort of screamed at her to get my mum lol but literally just the thought of it these days is enough to make me feel sick, so next time I think I'll find out if I can go somewhere where it's more professionally done.. and not just shoved in
Thank god! I'm not the only one! It's a scary moment I have to say and like you whenever I think about it, it really does go through me to the point of making me lose my appetite. That's what everyone said to me, it shouldn't be that painful but, I had only maybe a month earlier lost my virginity and I don't think my muscles were used to be 'pulled' apart ! At least not without some sort of turn on before (lol..true though) Everyone said to me that I should try and disown the bottom part of my body when It happens, but how the hell is that possible?! When she sort of scraped it, I just couldn't believe no one heard my screams in the waiting room, it's really put me off having it done at any other point if i NEEDED to have it done again.
i also had a male doctor which made me feel worse because i didnt know, i thought it was going to be a woman. the two female nurses were really nice though, one of them gave me a tissue for the tears and were dead nice to me afterwards.
Nah alot of it is to do with how relaxed you are.
First few i had didnt hurt, last one i had recently hurt like fuck as i was tense.
This is my second one tho and i have the coil in so i've had them duck beak things a few times lol
Yeah it is
They don't start doing them 'til you're 25 though.
and finding out you have Cervical Cancer too late is just a mere inconvenience?!
Well said. No-one likes it, but it is very much necessary, contrary to what you might think.
they jabbed a rainbow up there? :eek: :eek: :eek: i wonder if they left a pot of gold behind?
:yes: A bit of discomfort for a half a minute once a year can't even compare to years of cancer and death.
Plus my gyno is hot and its the closest thing I get to forplay ever. I'll take it.
Hold on, I got my letter through days after my 21st birthday.
I am dreading it now...ha thanks very much:)
OMG
Oh and btw, don't your Dr's use lube on the duck beak things, cos mine do.