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Yeah I know that. And there's no need to have a go at me.
Like it has already been mentioned, don't mix work with pleasure.
Am I the only one who doesn't think there's an issue here or something? he might've thought that she (OP) might've been busy that evening or didn't like his workmates or something.
no hard feelings, really now... but why do you always have the feelings everyone is having a go at you? I don't think littleali was offensive.
work was already being mixed with pleasure, they were on a night out and they work together.
i think he sounds immature, i'm not sure what age you both are? It's what adults do.
Sofie, would you think the same if your dad's work were having a night out and he didn't want to take your mum even although the other wives were going?
i'm not having a go, just making a point.
I'm sure if he had any reason to think either of those things the OP wouldn't be wondering why he didn't ask her.
Like I've said there are plenty of work things I've come across, (mine, my siblings, my parents) where it hasn't really fitted in to take a partner, even though it did for some of the colleagues. There's no need to take the immediate huff though, find out what's going on first.
In my experience, blokes want to avoid trouble whenever they can, so if you told him in the morning you were pissed off with him (and it sounds like you might not have told him why too) and wanted to talk to him when he got home, you were actively GIVING him a reason to not rush home.......so not surprising he said he didn't know when he'd be home!
I know it's easier said than done, but with things like that, if you didn't have time to mention it properly in the morning, it might have been best to wait until the evening when there's time to bring it up properly.:thumb:
maybe so but he still should have asked her if everybody else was taking there wives and gfs id be very annoyed if my boyfriend did the same
wtf sofie?
WHERE did i have a go at you?
yes, its ok not to want to mix business with pleasure, but when its a work night out and everyone else is taking partners, i think he should have taken her!
its not like no other wives/gf's were going!