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Why you with him if you feel you are to good for them? or is it the whole package you like?
Yeah, i know exactly what you mean and for the same reason - although mine's cake and booze weight!
Ah well. He lives with me now, so he can't get away
I've seen ya before... Well, pictures... And find it hard to believe that you'd ever be anything but beautiful.
So don't worry *hugs*
Add 15 to that and your a lot closer.
But you've just had his baby!! What could be more beautiful or appealing than being the mother of his child??
Although i'm not saying if i was sat with Brad Pitt fresh out of Troy i wouldn't be sat thinking oh my god i am such a munter and you are a god. :thumb:
As for Katchika. It's very easy to be critical of yourself, looks wise. I know i am. But i've been astonished at the horny buggers that have found me attractive.
ditto.
I do wonder what other people think sometimes though, like if they're gonna try to take him away because im too ugly for him
But anyway, rather than the confidence about "us" coming from the fact that I feel as nice looking as him (which would be impossible due to his superhuman ego :razz:), it basically comes from our relationship and the fact that it's so... good.
I have been out with some supposedly "hideous" blokes but I can find the charm in pretty much any face, and it just depends which really catches my eye. As everyone has said, if someone thought you weren't good enough for them (in any which way) they wouldn't be with you - life's too short. Though I suppose things are a bit different if you're a mega-millionnaire... I guess that isn't relevant to any of us schmucks. I think everyone bar the wholly superficial think that way.
It really is horses for courses :thumb:
... you're a cuwte wickle MILF now
Did you ever watch that show with Jimmy Carr and June Sarpong aired back in 2002? It was called your face or mine and it was completely addictive, but incredibly brutal and shallow! I used to watch it every day after uni with my then boyfriend. We always used to ponder over who would win the final round if we were on it. We never could decide, but in hindsight I suspect it would be me :razz:
I'd forgotten about that show. That was evil, but amusing esp. Jimmy Carr, he was a right bastard
I do sometimes worry about the whole package, whether I've enough to say for myself and everything else. Personally I think worrying about it a bit and having a bit of insecurity is more than normal. It also makes a fit bird even fitter in my eyes and the opposite is a total turn off.
I don't think it's a case of having to being in love with yourself for anybody else to love you, you just have to not hate yourself, cause that's when shit starts going down.
He on the otherhand, was pretty insecure. He's much improved now, especially as he's getting closer to a job with the Police. I have a few emails from a while back which say "you could do so much better etc etc" and every time I gave him a huge kick up the arse over it.
Lets face it, you can't get better than somebody that puts Deep Heat on your nether regions to see what happens :shocking: (fuck it hurt!) but that then apologises and goes to gets a wet and very cold tissue to take it all off again.