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Following on from previous thread, when did you lose your 'other virginity', and which one first? Which did you count as being your 'real' virginity? (if it was one over the other)
I first slept with a man at 18 about 3 months ago. Cue a month of curiosity driven sex. Very hot men, but I only slept with them to see what it was like, and they most likely only slept with me because I was an innocent wee bisexual thing.
And a woman, last week. Ha, no comparisons there.
I never really considered sleeping with a guy important, so I'd say I really only lost my virginity last week. I mean poking a winkie in a hole cant count can it?
I first slept with a man at 18 about 3 months ago. Cue a month of curiosity driven sex. Very hot men, but I only slept with them to see what it was like, and they most likely only slept with me because I was an innocent wee bisexual thing.
And a woman, last week. Ha, no comparisons there.
I never really considered sleeping with a guy important, so I'd say I really only lost my virginity last week. I mean poking a winkie in a hole cant count can it?
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NOTHING's uglier than a hairy ball sack.
I quite agree, je suis Monsieur Trimmed
My girlfriend and I keep discussing what constitutes virginity with girls. She insists penetration has to be involved, but I think that's heterosexist bullshit. Maybe I'm just your average dykey feminist...
Either way... I guess it was about 3 weeks ago. How innocent.
As you do.
It was when I was 19/20 during my confused stage.
And nah, I dont think it has to involve penetration. I'd say whatever felt like losing your virginity is losing your virginity. And boys dont count.
Definitely true about hairy ball sacks. I cant remember why I agreed to men. Bleh, women are really the more beautiful sex. Big up lesbianism :hyper:
Yeah, fairly soon after that I realised I wasn't gay/bi. It's the sort of thing that happens though, not something to go bragging about but then it's nothing worth being ashamed of or denying either.
People at work were cunts about it once it got out though - "Ooooh, how many straight guys do you know who suck guys off?" and all that shit.
Hmm not sure if I mean that literally or not.
only swing in one direction.
one day maybe....lol
And yeh well penis, schmenis, I'd say going down on someone was a lot more intimate that a poke in the privates.
Any suggestions for a name for gay virginity. Gayginity? Someone think of something better. Should there be one for girls and one for boys? They are slightly different acts.
Well, it just shows how silly they are (why did they upgrade 'a guy' to 'guys'?) and (probably) wish that they had the guts to try the same.
"gayginity" as shyboy has stated about a year ago
The original definition of a virgin was a young girl. Then it came to mean any girl with the hymen still intact. Then it was adapted ever so slightly to mean any person who had not yet had sexual intercourse.
The meaning of words change all the time (how long ago was it that the predominant meaning of the word "gay" was joyous?); now the predominant meaning of the word virgin (maybe not in the dictionary yet, but certainly in the minds of the people), is someone who hasn't had sex... and since "sex" means different things to different people, we all sort of have our own, personal view on what it takes to loose your virginity. To some people that might mean full penetration, to others, it could be something completely different.
As for my gayginity... still intact, and I'm not planning on loosing it... but who knows, maybe someday.
And my favourite book by her is the Lighthouse Keeper. Sexing the cherry is also good. I love the fairytale element to her books... Happy reading :wave:
My friend had a one night stand and a quick poke but always say she feels she lost her virginity to her previous boyfriend even though they didn't have penetrative sex.
I was nearly 16 but I was never really intimate with him, he was my first crush (thought I was in love at the time) but it was very, erm, mechanical.
I guess that still counts though
As for the other-ginity, haven't
It's when you first have sex - whether penetrative for hetero, or oral/however close you can get to 'full sex' is for Lesbian.
Yeah, but you had. Most sex I have doesn't mean anything to me, just a bit of fun.
Glad you found what suits you better though