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one night nearly-stand
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met someone friday night who was fit funny and my type. i stayed at his but didn't have sex with him although i usually would have done ...
i don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing, what do lads generally think of girls who don't shag them on the night they meet them ?
and girls, have you ever been in the same situation
my heads a bit mushy right now hopefuly i wont see him again .. i crept out before he woke up but in my rush to leave left my necklace which i guess i will live without it.
i don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing, what do lads generally think of girls who don't shag them on the night they meet them ?
and girls, have you ever been in the same situation
my heads a bit mushy right now hopefuly i wont see him again .. i crept out before he woke up but in my rush to leave left my necklace which i guess i will live without it.
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Sounds a bit odd....like a one night stand situation, but without the sex!! If you hope you won't see him again, why are you worried what he thought about you by either sleeping/not sleeping with him??
it was a weird situation never been in it before just fancied hearing some other peoples points on it
not quite sure why i dont want to see him again really ..
I might be paranoid.
Personally I respect them, more because it makes me think that they have respect for themselves.
If I'm not worth a second date then I'm not worth screwing either - unless that was her intention from the start.
Must admit that I have never had a one-night stand and I'm proud of that fact.
The fact that you enjoyed each others company without the need to have sex so quickly is a good sign... however you have kinda put the kibosh on anything meaningful coming from it by running out on him!
Unless he ends up doing a Prince Charming thingymebob and comes to look for the woman who owns the beautiful necklace
In this day and age it would be more creepy than romantic guys can't win! I was watching a disney film the other day (Ariel or whatever) and thought the world needs more love. But if you say to someone you love them they think you're a freak!
Having seen Dirty Dancing in the West End last week, my friend and I decided that the world needs more dancing... it used to be completely normal for guys and gals to meet at a dance where people actually danced together old stylee... rather than just got off their tits and wobbled a bit.
Seeing everyone's reaction to Johnny and Baby dancing, it was evidently clear that dancing was most definately a turn on for many women...
If you'd have slept with me on the first night, yeah I would have enjoyed it and wouldn't mind having a bit more action, but I wouldn't take it any further.
It depends what you want with boys and what you want them to think about you. Do you want them to actually fall for you, or do you want them to think of you as someone they like to fuck?
no respect gained for you the other night then
...*hangs head in shame*
Yeah yeah, stop trying to justify your shameful actions.
I'm not finger pointing or anything, just curious to know why.
If I've gone home/back to a girls house, most of the time we'll just sleep in the same bed and cuddle. Usually cause all I want to do after a night out is sleep, and it's a shit feeling the next morning if either of you regrets it.
If it happens it happens though, but if he loses respect for you because you didn't shag him then he wouldn't have been worth it anyway.
Thats harsh but so true ..
If a guy refused to sex to a girl she would just appear to be desperate and feel unloved
I reeeally don't know .. it doesn't make any sense something just stopped me and it wasnt like i don't like sex or anything i just didn't want to fuck him even though we did other stuff .. i dunno its weird .. not like me at all
Not ashamed just a bit confused cos normally i throw ''caution to the wind'' and just go with it but this time i didn't thats all.
and i was just wandering what guys thought of girls who didn't have sex straight away thats all
Haha, that probably wouldn't work too well
Guy: "Hello, are you the beautiful owner of this necklace?
Girl: *FREE NECKLACE!* "Why yes i am!" *takes necklace*
Haha, You should go see him again , hes probably feeling a little down that you just ran off without even saying goodbye at least , or calling him!
Drop by and see how he is!