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since breaking up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago i havent slept with any one since, its not that i havent had the opportunities i just really dont want to ..
its weird cos i have quite a high sex drive and its not even that im in mourning over my ex cos, lets face it, he was a muppet
whats wrong with me ?
its weird cos i have quite a high sex drive and its not even that im in mourning over my ex cos, lets face it, he was a muppet
whats wrong with me ?
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Seriously though, it may not be that you're mourning over him, but you're probably not over him completely and it just doesn't feel right...even if you aren't upset.
Give it a while and you'll be gagging for it. lol
Just do it when you next have an opportunity that feels comfortable, I guess!
ETA: Oh..just realised you're asking how long we've been without too...9 MONTHS!!! :shocking: But was kind of worth it, because the first time after that felt amazing...
Six months ? wow i hope these weird feelings pass quicker than that ...
thanks for your advice everybody
everybodys different
regarding the topic, this has a very bad connotation.
I lived in celibate, but not out of my own choice, but out of the choice of the girls around me.
I think I would expire or disappear in a puff of sexually-frustrated smoke if I went a lot longer than this on a regular basis
And of course my self imposed celibacy at the beginning of the year which lasted oooh just under a month :rolleyes:
Then I had a 4 week break, then I would have to wait about 2 weeks between each time as me and my then boyfriend (now partner!) lived in our parents place in 2 different towns and it was shall we say erm.... short, sweet visits every other week but with both of us having 2 siblings & parents in the house ..I think I'll stop there
Longest after that would be the 6 weeks post the birth of my daughter, but the first time after that was WOW! :hyper: Now I never seem to have to wait more than a week, 2 at the most and then only when one of us is ill :thumb:
Isn't that exactly what a "fuck buddy" is for? Wouldn't it otherwise be a "boyfriend" ?
:yes: What i was thinking. :yes:
Eeeer I think it must be just over a month - since I was 16.
That's exactly what I thought!!
Katchika your pm box is full.
Add me to your msn hun.
no really about 3 months and counting.
I was waiting for someone to say that!
I guess the four months I was in Russia was probably the longest. Ecuador was broken up nicely when my (then) girlfriend came over a couple of times.
But i was a bit of a hussy. And i've been in a number of long term relationships in that time as well.