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Good point actually, men are proven liars apparently.
I've tried condoms for the novelty. But we were both virgins so you know. Not much to catch. Never been with anyone else meself.
Stupidly, it has nothing to do with whether I trust the bloke is clean or not - it's how I feel about him - and the sex - in general - which is a stupid reason not to use a condom if ever I heard one!
Went for a test recently and I'm clean, though, which I was really surprised about to be honest! And have vowed to myself never to be so stupid again....but I've yet to see how long that'll last....:chin:
I remember sleeping with a woman last year and I said about getting a condom and she said something like "OMG, I haven't got anything, cheeky bastard". Like I was gonna take that risk.
I feel i'm the only one using it for this reason but i just find it easier to use a condom...
Get things heated up then take 10 seconds to quickly roll a condom down (yes, 10 seconds of rolling, i've a monster!) then get banging away, when it's all done takes 10 seconds to tidy up, instead of having spunk running down her leg for the rest of the night!
Imagine, i'm out one weekend, take a lovely young lady back to mine, she says that she's on the pill, i say thats great because i don't want to wear a condom, she says she wants me to, i say "Why? i'm clean, i've only had sex with my girlfriend before and she was a virgin... "
She agrees... how do i know she hasn't fell for the same routine before only he was an STI infested fella?
Not worth the risk, why? just to save 30pence and a 10 second interruption
i have occasionally been stupid in the past but i've been on the pill for yonks and pregnancy is the thing which scares me most.
Surely POTW?
More than six months ago and I've only now had all the tests done (because HIV and Hep. can take ages to show up). Thank the lord that I have nothing. Even the gum clinic woman said it was a miracle I didn't have at least Chlamydia.
Now I'm in a long-term relationship and have the implant and we don't use condoms. We didn't the entire time I was waiting for tests either, which was incredibly stupid, but that's a different story. All good now.
I guess the answer here is that if you don't know someone well, you can't trust them.
my slogan: bag it before ya shag it...:thumb:
A lot of my friends who are on the pill, dont! And i just dont get it.
You cant always tell if a bloke has something, and girls cant either so it can just keep gettin passed backwards and forwards to loads of different people!!
I just cant understand why any one would want to take that risk!!
And condoms arent so bad!! There is the most random choice of style and colour and texture and flavour out there lol
:yes: And not just for the bloke....I know they're necessary and all that, but hate them really....:(