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What every guy should know about fingering

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    what every guy should know about fingering is:

    I think we all like differnt things
    I don't like my pee hole played with, for others it feels good
    if it's not wet, do not enter
    don't go straight for the button, except for sometimes.
    pay close attention to the woman's responses to guage what she's liking.
    If in doubt, get her to show you- her hand over yours can put you in the right direction.

    One other thng to add- don't be too rough! It is better to be gentle than too rough, we are delicate, y'know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lacy wrote: »
    Aww Lipsy you are a star.

    Trainee Porn Star :naughty:


    LOL .. just teasing .. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    public places are good for me, as long as its not too public!

    definately no long nails! it hurts, clean fingernails aswell :thumb:

    imo i like the guy basically just thrusting 2 fingers like you would during ordinary sex, but with just fingers, use the muscles in your arm not just moving your fingers, going quite far in, and gettin the angle right is kinda essential....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote: »
    public places are good for me, as long as its not too public!

    definately no long nails! it hurts, clean fingernails aswell :thumb:

    imo i like the guy basically just thrusting 2 fingers like you would during ordinary sex, but with just fingers, use the muscles in your arm not just moving your fingers, going quite far in, and gettin the angle right is kinda essential....

    oww my ex did that and it hurt-another thing cant remeber if its already been said but dont try and put your whole hand-it may be stretchy down there but not that stretchy-as to public places a field is most public ive done it but nooone was around
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    middle finger moved gently in circles around the clit, getting quicker as and when she seems to be building to climax. this has always pleased girls i've been with.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she starts moaning or says shes about to cum, carry on what you're doing without changing speed/pressure
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote: »
    my tip is not to call it fingering cuz it's just...so gross

    :yes:

    Gotta agree on that one. There a very few less sexy sex words.

    Albeit a fairly accurate description of the way overexuberant and inexperienced young males think they should do it. :sour:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    easy peasy.. listen to their reaction!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well me and my ex shed like beunder the covers with me whille were wathng a film or summat like thatand she would jerk me off and would finger her and theyd be loads of people in the room i also like it in public (im a dude by the way) i guessed she like it that way too
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    in my opinion, dont think " im going to finger her" and then just jump on in there. don't go straight for the area. move your hands up her legs, or down her back and over her ass. touch everywhere down there. get close. but don't go for it til she's begging for it. then she will probably tell u exactly what she wants!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex is rubbish at fingering...he always used to start off to roughly - that kind of thing probably works for him, but being femnale I prefer to start slowly and gently, gaining pace/pressure the closerr I get to orgasm.

    One thing he DID do right though...was insert one or two fingers and make a kind of 'come here' finger motion. Think it hits the g-spot or something, i'm not sure - but whatever, it felt amazing.

    Oh yeah - and it sounds weird, but (gently) tugging on a girl's pubic hair - presuming she has some - feels good.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've not been fingered in public for years, the thought of it now disguists me slightly although when I was younger I was more into that type of thing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Snow White Queen* wrote: »
    Keep your nails short!

    thats a defo must!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    living_in_chaos wrote: »
    in my opinion, dont think " im going to finger her" and then just jump on in there. don't go straight for the area. move your hands up her legs, or down her back and over her ass. touch everywhere down there. get close. but don't go for it til she's begging for it. then she will probably tell u exactly what she wants!


    I'd agree with that!! :D
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