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What every guy should know about fingering

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    just makes u a slapper...:eek2:
    if she let every lad in the room do it maybe - but then why does slapper have to be derogatory?
    If it's not hurting anyone then why the fuck not? Go by your signature.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    VinylVicky wrote: »
    if she let every lad in the room do it maybe - but then why does slapper have to be derogatory?
    If it's not hurting anyone then why the fuck not? Go by your signature.....

    You dont need 2 be a slapper to be 2 "not borin"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    You dont need 2 be a slapper to be 2 "not borin"

    Knew you'd only comment on the not so relevant bit I stuck on the end of my point
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    You dont need 2 be a slapper to be 2 "not borin"

    You don't like explaining things, do you zooloo?

    How exactly does that make somebody a slapper? Then again, you think I'm sad having a fuck buddy...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    just makes u a slapper...:eek2:
    Why? Because she likes to enjoy herself? My best friend has had sex with his girlfriend in the middle of a room full of people, and he isn't a slapper. So she enjoys sexual stuff, big deal. I'm sure his friends were loving it anyway ;o.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ALL GUYS SHOULD KNOW in general:
    (Correct me if I am wrong)

    1. Smell Nice
    2. Make sure you cock is clean (sorry to be blunt but its true)
    3. Fresh Breath .. no one really wants to kiss a bong that stella has been poured into .. unless your into that sort of thing
    4. When we say 'Im fine' we're usually not (im not anyway) and it usually means i want some TLC so be extra nice but not too over the top or it gets annoying
    5. Be nice but not too nice (maybe its just me again but i prefer to be chased)
    6. Keep finger nails short (copied that from somebody sorry but good point)
    7. Fingering isnt to be rushed just so you can get to the main course and dont think that as many fingers as possible equals as much pleasure

    Doing things in public is fuuun .. but im just quite a kinky girl lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    How exactly does that make somebody a slapper? Then again, you think I'm sad having a fuck buddy...

    Whats wrong with having a fuck buddy?

    wish mine didnt turn into a nightmare relationship ! now we're not even speaking let alone fucking
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    VinylVicky wrote: »
    Knew you'd only comment on the not so relevant bit I stuck on the end of my point

    IN MY OPINION ,DOIN ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN PUBLIC ,IS BEEN A SLAPPER...:yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    You don't like explaining things, do you zooloo?

    How exactly does that make somebody a slapper? Then again, you think I'm sad having a fuck buddy...

    :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    IN MY OPINION ,DOIN ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN PUBLIC ,IS BEEN A SLAPPER...:yes:
    Fine, you are entitled to think that but that doesn't give you a right to flame people. You can say that is your point but there's ways of getting your point accross. Tact maybe? Just cos you think someone is a slapper doesn't mean you have to be rude......no pun there folks!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    xjust-thinkingx wrote: »
    Whats wrong with having a fuck buddy?


    Exactly.

    See the other thread about sex and positions.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your entitled to your opinion but once you get into a lustful relationship and the heat of the moment takes over you you'll think differently of calling the girl you are fingering that you probably love a slapper
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    xjust-thinkingx wrote: »
    Your entitled to your opinion but once you get into a lustful relationship and the heat of the moment takes over you you'll think differently of calling the girl you are fingering that you probably love a slapper



    zooloo is a girl... Well, according to her profile! :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    zooloo is a girl... Well, according to her profile! :lol:

    ALL FEMALE THANX!!!:yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    IN MY OPINION ,DOIN ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN PUBLIC ,IS BEEN A SLAPPER...:yes:

    You are 17 at most, aren't you?

    5/1 - You drive a Corsa,
    3/1 - with full body kit,
    evens - you own some item with Burberry pattern...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    zooloo is a girl... Well, according to her profile! :lol:

    ooooohhh Hahahahhahaa:lol: ... sorry i thought it was a bloke !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Man Of Kent wrote: »
    You are 17 at most, aren't you?

    5/1 - You drive a Corsa,
    3/1 - with full body kit,
    evens - you own some item with Burberry pattern...

    Possibly POTW for me.






    ... and I can't believe I just wrote that. :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    ALL FEMALE THANX!!!:yes:
    Then all you have to do is edit it like so:
    Your entitled to your opinion but once you get into a lustful relationship and the heat of the moment takes over you you'll think differently of calling the [boy] you are [jacking off] that you probably love a slapper.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote: »
    Then all you have to do is edit it like so:

    :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Man Of Kent wrote: »
    You are 17 at most, aren't you?

    5/1 - You drive a Corsa,
    3/1 - with full body kit,
    evens - you own some item with Burberry pattern...

    I like those odds :thumb:

    Tenner each way from me :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do stop shouting zooloo, it's doing my head in. Really, how long does it take to extend your hand to the Caps Lock button? And maybe not speak in text speak so I can at least try to take you seriously?

    I've been fingered walking down the street before. Oh woe is me if that makes me a slapper, and what if I ever meet any of those random strangers again? :blush:

    Life's too short to care really. If you're enjoying it do it... as long as you're fairly certain you won't get arrested for indecent exposure.
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    zooloo wrote: »
    IN MY OPINION ,DOIN ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN PUBLIC ,IS BEEN A SLAPPER...:yes:

    Lipsy hasn't done anything offensive, anything to harm anyone in the context, or to harm herself for that matter. If she's having fun, and no-one else is negatively affected by the experience then it's all good.

    You've simply taken a rubbish word, used it sloppily, and tried to put someone down. It's not a good combination. :no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **Helen** wrote: »
    Lipsy hasn't done anything offensive, anything to harm anyone in the context, or to harm herself for that matter. If she's having fun, and no-one else is negatively affected by the experience then it's all good.

    You've simply taken a rubbish word, used it sloppily, and tried to put someone down. It's not a good combination. :no:

    Totally agree Helen :yes:
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    **Helen** wrote: »
    You've simply taken a rubbish word, used it sloppily, and tried to put someone down. It's not a good combination. :no:

    Although its a good ban-worthy combination I feel.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    just makes u a slapper...:eek2:

    Why am I a slapper for recognising my own sexuality and freedom? And shame on you for calling another female a 'slapper'. You type of girls who look down on other girls for having sex make me sick.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote: »
    Why am I a slapper for recognising my own sexuality and freedom? And shame on you for calling another female a 'slapper'. You type of girls who look down on other girls for having sex make me sick.
    *applauds*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote: »
    Why am I a slapper for recognising my own sexuality and freedom? And shame on you for calling another female a 'slapper'. You type of girls who look down on other girls for having sex make me sick.

    Aww Lipsy you are a star.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that shut zooloo up, lol

    my opinion on it, i've only been fingered in public in the cinema i think, wasn't anything great as it was half empty, lol, cant remember who said it but the being in a room with all his mates, been there done that, loved it.
    Since i've been single the 'worst' has been in his car, in a car park in the middle of the day. Windows were steamed so it probably doesn't count. Ho Hum :yippe:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    zooloo wrote: »
    IN MY OPINION ,DOIN ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN PUBLIC ,IS BEEN A SLAPPER...:yes:

    Somebody's obviously not getting any are they
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what every guy should know about fingering is:

    I think we all like differnt things
    I don't like my pee hole played with, for others it feels good
    if it's not wet, do not enter
    don't go straight for the button, except for sometimes.
    pay close attention to the woman's responses to guage what she's liking.
    If in doubt, get her to show you- her hand over yours can put you in the right direction.
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