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Do you all trust your other halves?
I do more than ive ever trusted any other lad..but do any of u still have a doubt in the back of ur heads?
My bfs out up town tonight and my ex has just been talkin to me on msn and when i said my bfs up the town he said aww he could be all over some other girl for all u know then and that really peed me off tryin cause trouble i know i can trust my bf but now i have stupid thoughts in my head :mad: stupid exes
I do more than ive ever trusted any other lad..but do any of u still have a doubt in the back of ur heads?
My bfs out up town tonight and my ex has just been talkin to me on msn and when i said my bfs up the town he said aww he could be all over some other girl for all u know then and that really peed me off tryin cause trouble i know i can trust my bf but now i have stupid thoughts in my head :mad: stupid exes
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Lol but your chatting to your ex? And your worried about what your bloke could be doing? He probably has the same worries.
But to answer your question i don't think i've ever trusted someone 100%, mainly cos i know that i can't be trusted so i assume other people are like me.
If you can't take the heat, then get out of the kitchen though. I've no desire for a girlfriend at all justnow cause the trust thing and the fear of getting hurt is too strong. Better that way because lack of trust can kill any relationship.
I dont, however, trust that he wouldnt want to, or doesnt fancy other women, but thats more due to my low self esteem: thinking im so crap that he must want to, rather than actually thinking he's a bad person.
If that makes any sense.
I believe my Girlfriend is the only person I have trusted 100% ever.
:yes: Makes sense to me, because I'm exactly the same.
Tonight, we've both been out - but in different towns, no chance of running into one another. I know he'll avoid the girls, but I don't know that he wont think "cor, wish I could"
But I know he'd never cheat on me. I have no issues with him looking and will join in with him if we're out together.
It's a good job we trust each other though because being 80 mile apart, at uni, out on the town regularly and both having ex's doing the same course that we are and are still good friends with, it could cause issues if we didn't.
So he was given a genuine honest chance to go fuck whoever he wanted and said no. That's how I know my jealousy and trust problems are just that- MY problems.
Think about it and work out if the problem is yours (like you are jealous and can't trust him when he hasn't given you any reason to mistrust him) or his (like you are jealous and can't trust him and he has given you plenty of reason to mistrust him). That helped me.
They've all been super fit delicious, so I've always known other guys are gonna try an hook up with em. Given the right amount of alcohol and flattering comments, they'll usually cop off behind ya back.
I may not be the best looking, but she chose me.
Much to my dismay I am currently in the process of realising you
can't half-arse trust.
I was hoping I could "kinda-sorta" trust my other half, but I can't.
It's a yes or no resolution.
You either trust em, or you don't, there's no healthy medium.
Now don't get me wrong, there's different realms of trust
within a relationship.
I trust him with my life.
I trust him with my money.
I trust him with my secrets.
But that other kinda trust...not yet.
aww:D
i wish i had that sort of confidence in myself
:no: Thats a very harsh and untrue stereotype and one that if your g/f's know you think will make them far more likely to cheat on you. Relationships can't and don't work without trust as no matter how hard you try and cover it up, the fact will show and make the other person feel like crap.
But my girlfriend cheated on me pretty badly, so I don't trust her 100% yet. But things are much better now than they were before, she's grown up a lot and I really doubt she'll make the same mistake twice, as she too avoids that kind of attention now, as it does lead to the wrong kind of thing.
Nooooo your not back with that stupid bird are ya?
Its his choice to give her another chance if he wants too.
Aww but i like Shyboy. I remember when he was little
I don't however, trust him not to start smoking again. It really is the only problem area for me; I've caught him twice when he's lied about it. I'm 99% sure it wont happen again, and I'd never outright accuse him of it, but if I catch the faintest smell of it on him, I do worry about it.
Only kidding...
I trust him 100%
My reaction exactly.
It makes me pull this face:
I don't trust anyone else 100%, even my best mates. I may trust certain people alot, but never 100%. I've had very little trust in other girlfriends because of bad experiences and I know how I sometimes think about other girls when I'm in relationship...I may not act on it but I think it, so what's stopping a girlfriend of mine actually acting on her thoughts about other guys?