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To the original question:
I do trust him, which is weird because I've never trusted anyone before. I don't worry about his friendships with other girls, I don't worry about what he's doing when he goes out with his friends without me, I just trust him because I know he would never do anything to hurt me or owt like that. I sometimes get silly little jealous twinges, but those are minimal :yes:.
Aww i always think what a sweet couple you are. I think i've got something in my eye :crying:
As for me well i know which ones i can trust and which ones i can't. I can usually trust the ugly ones.
agree here ^^
i was suspisious so asked him, he said No!! and although i thought i'd no if he was lying it turned out he was, his ex told me what had happened two weeks later, and when i confronted him he just said Girls have such big mouths and was actually annoyed that she had told me..
Trust is so much more than that.
Trust is knowing they're going to be there for you. Trust is knowing you're safe with them. That they're not going to fuck you over. That they're not going to run away with your money. That you can believe everything that they say, even if it sounds completely ridiculous. That you know they support you. That they'd take a bullet for you.
Trust in a relationship is hard won, but easily lost. But it's one of the (if not the most) vital components of a relationship.
As for the question, even though it's early days, I trust my other half implicitly.
That's a good point. I think then that I am in the stage of 'getting there' which to me is pretty good for a six month relationship. Not so sure about the bullet one. We were watching Shaun of the Dead and I asked him if he'd shoot me if I was a zombie to which he replied 'no' then added 'I'd shoot you twice just to make sure' :grump: