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Loved up too soon????
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hi guys!
im mostly writing this to vent...but id greatly appreciate people's comments/opinions on this!
basically ive been seeing a guy ive known for years, for a good few weeks now. every second im not with him, i miss him! I always think about him! we both love each other, but i worry he doesnt really love me (he's never told a girl he loved her before, where as ive loved 3 people previously) but he thinks he does!
When he's around me i feel so happy and dont want him to leave....and he's said he feels the same about me! Is this too good to be true??? we've both been hurt alot in the past, but we both feel comfy with the other person
thanx guys
L+C
im mostly writing this to vent...but id greatly appreciate people's comments/opinions on this!
basically ive been seeing a guy ive known for years, for a good few weeks now. every second im not with him, i miss him! I always think about him! we both love each other, but i worry he doesnt really love me (he's never told a girl he loved her before, where as ive loved 3 people previously) but he thinks he does!
When he's around me i feel so happy and dont want him to leave....and he's said he feels the same about me! Is this too good to be true??? we've both been hurt alot in the past, but we both feel comfy with the other person
thanx guys
L+C
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If you'd left this bit out, I would say yeh, maybe it's a bit soon. But if you've known him for years, then you probably already know him pretty well, so the "getting to know them" part of the relationship was done and over with before you started being more than friends. Me and the boy were friends for quite a while before we got together, he was one of my best friends, and when we did get together it didn't take me long before I was thinking "I love him" thoughts.
*shrug*
ive been in love before though....so know how it feels!
he says he loves me and i know he thinks he does, but its wether he actually does (im just wary because he's never loved a girl before...maybe what he's feeling for me isnt true love??)
:yes:
I agree. I was friends with my ex of 3 years for about a year before we actually got it together. We were very close friends as well. Within 2/3 months, I knew I loved him.
Yeah but love doesn't always feel the same for every person you've loved.