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What kind of bf/gf are you?
BillieTheBot
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Are you one of those people that has to be with their other half 24/7, or do you like to keep them at arms length?
I'm starting to think all blokes are clingy, irritating twats.
I'm starting to think all blokes are clingy, irritating twats.
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hmm I reckon some pople are a bit too stand offish, bit too into their indepenace and are a bit too cool for school about it.
I wouldn't mind a girl I was actually into, wnating to see me and be with me.
Unfortaunately its always the ones I ain't inot that give me the attention..
Not all, but some definitely are. Same goes for lasses.
I used to need a LOT of space in my relationships, I guess because we lived in each other's pockets I ended up being frustrated as there was no balance between "me" time and "we" time.
I have it about right these days, I definitely still need time by myself or with mates. I do feel suffocated quite easily at times, then at others there's no one else I want to spend time with. Oh mood swings
best of both worlds.
but ive been getting better at the whole distancing yourself thing.
However I do worry about my girlfriends when they go out and I'm not with them, although I never let them know that.
I also fall for girls way too easily, I'll pull some girl whilst very drunk in a club and I'll be thinking about her for a few days after and how it could have possibly been something more.
I don't like to be smothered, nor do I like for people to be over-proective of me, it makes me uncomfortable and I'd rather be with somebody who lets me make mistakes and learns from them.
i have had much bad experience with girlfriends in last few years.
I realise how unattractive guys (well, the ones I've been with) find it so purposely go to an effort not to be clingy.
I, myself, need lots of ME time. I don't think I could deal with a clingy guy. I'd feel trapped and smothered and urgh :yuck:
But that's ok, because he's exactly the same .
we are the same, he only goes home one night a week and i hate that night of lonliness
I HATE nights apart. I do like my own space too though but I like to know hes there.
I think were pretty much the same on clinginess levels, which works
Unfortunately I see mine about as much as you're away from yours .
If I am seeing somebody, and it feels comfortable to spend x amount of time with them, then I will... If not, I don't.
I like my own space, and I like to do things on my own or with my friends but I rarely get enough/any time to do that apart from weights/martial arts/work lol.
It does my head in when people always want to 'cuch' and shit, I like cuching as much as the next bloke, but not ALL the time, jesus!
And no, I'm not in a mood, just because I want to lie on the other couch! lol
lol
a cuddle maybe a better word
eta: i like hugs so me and my ex used to have big hugs, it was never meant in a clingy way though!
I still spend too much time with my mates, pretty much all the girls I've been with have said the same thing.
No I like lots of hugs too but sometimes its like for fuck sake lol
a fucking cuch how can you not have heard that, I am flabbergasted.
I'm the same. I'd spend my whole weekends with my friends and she'd not see me for 3 days straight. I didn't see the problem because I was still available all week! I'd be crucified by my friends if I ever performed the mortal sin of 'muff before mates'. Can't keep everyone happy.
The now, well when I was seeing a few lads I'd see them once every week/twice a week if I was out and they were too.
They'd always text me/phone me occasionally so it's not as though because I wasn't touching their toilet parts I wasn't on their mind which was nice. Vice versa for me! :razz: