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sex with older men!!
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think of having sex with a man that is old enough to be my father!! Any advice???
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ETS: the underage thing. thats why.
how about fucking your husband instead? or at least leaving him!
how about some manners? You are not going to make a lot of friends here.
Do you want advice or us to schmooze you?
Well i'm not gonna go on about you shagging someone behind you husbands back, that's your decision, but maybe you should be looking at why you want to have an affair and if anything can be done in the relationship you have with your husband at the present time.
Beat to it! I like how you think!
Yeah I thought the same Suzy, I don't think they can shock anyone on here, we have all heard and seen much worse. Tubgirl *shudders*.
dirty bitch! I like it tho.. :razz:
much experience here lipsy?
(joke, all in good fun)
We've had an increase in the number of people looking at the boards and as a result an increase in the number of new posters. There's nothing in this thread that implies someone trying to shock you (well enless you think someone having an affair is somehow shocking)
I don't think your doing anyone any favours by undermining new members of the boards in their first threads. Whilst one new member seems to be pretty troll like, the other people's threads don't read that way from our perspective.
Maybe take a breather from new user's posts, as encouraging speculation and paranoia only leads to the flaming of new users, something we'll not tolerate. And if people are evidently trolls we'll ban them.
Of course it's touchy, you sound like you are in a rut and that sex with someone else is a way out of it. It isn't.
You need to be honest with yourself and your husband. If things aren't right and there isn't a future there then you owe it to him to be honest and tell him that before you go and do something behind his back. Sure it will hurt him and sure it won't be easy for you - but it will be a damned sight easier that dealing with his sense of betrayal when he finds out that you've been cheating. Especially if he then finds out that you gave it a lot of thought before hand, some how that makes the whole decision seem "colder".
Finally, as someone new to the boards it's probably not a good idea to jump down someone's throat because they give advice which you don't like. You have no idea if that person has themselves been cheated on, for example. Take it easy and you'll find that people here can be very supportive.
[ETA: There's nothing wrong, per se, in having sex with someone older than you - and I speak as a 36-y-o. Bad sex is bad sex whatever the age.
There's obviously a reason why he doesn't want to do things with you - have you asked him why? Relationships are two way efforts, and there's obviously something bothering him too.
Perhaps before you run off trying out other men, you should invest in a vibrator? My boyfriend has an extremely low sex drive, and mine is quite a bit higher, but I've never felt the urge to cheat, and if I do feel a bit lacking in sex, I don't have to look to anybody else to fix it for me.