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Gentle hair pulling (making sure you have a good hand full!!) from the back of the head/base of the neck is quite common in my experience. Nothing too harsh though, just depends on what the girl likes! I've had hair pulling in return (not that I have long hair). I quite like it.
Shit - I didn't notice how old the thread was either so posted. Oops!
I think this brings up an interesting debate of bedroom practices and what to do if your the guy.
We have here, a mix of opinions, girls saying they love hgair puling, hands round neck and a bit of rough sex and others saying they hate it.
So what do you do if your a guy and with a girl and going for it?
Because for such practices, its said you should ask, talk about it first but that takes the thrill and spontinety of it. Also some girls complain if a guy sis asking her what to do in bed.
Some, a lot gf girls when recalling their encounters recall with fondess of how suddenly the guy did something, he suddenly took her roughly or pulled her hair etc.
So say you do that but it turns out she isnt into it and hates it, you do and she slaps you or hates you or thinks ur a werid sex perve.
Its a tricky situation.
I ws with one girl who loved the hands round the neck. Luckily we had talked for ages about sex stuff b4 we met up and did it so when we met up and had fun, i did the neck thing, knowing she'd love it. Have to say, it does bring out something in you. I remember squeezing her neck with one hand as hard as I could and she loved it.
I love my hair being touch during sex cos then it feels really soft afterwards.
Hair pulling and ear lobe nibbling are two of my my favourite things to have done (and do) during sex, and my boyfriend doesn't do it enough!
When you're in the 'throes of passion' rough hair pulling is great, and I also like it when I'm going down on my bf, and he pulls my hair fairly gently, or wraps it rouond his fingers quite tightly.
Men seem to HATE it when you slap their arse, I've noticed. Ha ha ha.
Not true
well its mad! especially wen da gal is on top and wen u doin doggy :yes: