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wot is love?
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i thought that i was in love once but soon realise i werent , wen i use 2 say 2 me mate, 'im in love'
she would say 2 me ' no your not coz u dont no wot love is'
so sum1 please tell me wot love means and wot it really feels like to be in love
thanx
she would say 2 me ' no your not coz u dont no wot love is'
so sum1 please tell me wot love means and wot it really feels like to be in love
thanx
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I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
Well thats my 10 cents worth <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
i think you can be in love a lot earlier than that, i felt like i was in love with my boyfriend after only about a month. even though it didnt last, because we changed and we kind of ruined it by our actions and how we treated each other, we still loved each other. even if the love doesnt last, i dont think you have to wait as long as you said mark to realise if youre in love or not.
although its hard, after that long, might it not turn into more companionship than a passionate relationship? towards the end of my relationship it began to feel like that as it had lost all teh excitement. if we had been married we would have tried to work it out, i believe we could have done if we were both willing to talk and listen and make the effort to treat each other differently. as it was, it was just a relationship and i wanted to have other relationships, and i was getting itchy feet i guess! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> but we still loved each other.
maybe what you said mark about the 10-15 years is if you find the perfect one for you, your soulmate, THE one.
anyway ill stop my rambling. i think if you are in love (or this might be lust, i dont know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"> ) yuo want to be with them every minute of every day and miss them when you're not, you fnd them interesting, entertaining, and admire most things about them (the ability to see their faults comes later! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> ),you feel almost a physical loss when they go away, even for only a few minutes.
im sure there are other things but ive said enough <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
LOVE, what is that?! You think your in love and you get your heartbroken! Leave love till your older..coz you dont want this messing up your life!! BUT do what want!
Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
falling in love is easy, i do it every day. with joe <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> its an amazing flip in your stomach, lightheaded, dizzy yet amazingly sighably happy feeling.
I was gonna write something exactly like this, but then I saw your post and thought hey I'll just paste yours hehe. I definitely agree with what you've said there, and I dont know whether its love or lust either.
and then you have the whole stomach flippy thing like ickle said, ive had that with soooo many blokes! lol..just ones i admired from afar, i used to be far too shy to do anything about it! :embarrassed:
the things i described did disappear after a few months, but we still loved each other, and still had the heart-pulling feeling of seeing him pull away on the train... so maybe that was just either lust or the initial feelings of love. who knows?
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
David is the first person I've loved in this way, but I didn't have to be taught how do do it - it's a gift every human has inside them <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
You'll know straight away when you're truly in love because you get this 'loving feeling' <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
*Tara*
"you know you are in love NOT when you know you want to live with them but when you know you CANNOT live without them"
Respect
i know u probably didnt make it up but i think its true.
anyway i just quoted some stuff from here in the new love topic, everyone go and read THAT!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
No i didnt, but its true in my case. I dont tend to like love quotes but i thought that one was really true and sweet.
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
i think i am in love cos when ever my bf goes home i just want to be with him. we see eachother everyday, and when 4 some reason we dont i feel like somthing is missing.
4 example: last year in june (i got with my bf in the feb) he went on holiday 2 ibiza with 3 mates, of which i hated. i can honestly say that they were the worst 2 weeks of my life!
i cried 4 practicly the whole of the forst week, i had convinced myself that he was going to meet some1 else or pull behind my back. it felt awful i just wanted 2 be in his arms. then when he got back 2 weeks later i went on hol 2 spain. and that was my worst holiday ever, it felt like every1 had their bf or gf with them and i was the only single person there!!!! silly i know but thats the way it was.
i was so moody 4 the whole holiday that my mum and dad decided 2 invite him with us this year!!
my mum well mainly my dad wont let us share the same room on a night, which really annoys me!!! and when i sleep at his his mum lets us sleep in the same room (after alot of begging!) but not the same bed. he has a key 4 his door and at first his mum used to take it out the door, but the bathroom key fits his door and he used to knick that and we would sleep together!! now she doesnt bother with the key but still thinks we sleep separatly!! ha ha!
anyway sorry i rambled on but yeas i am in love!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
someone once said there is no love...only infatuation...and it's kinda got me thinking...
children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
Or could the most loved one- be true love?
what would you say is true love?
difference between live and true love?
no. ive been in love with 2 differnet people and i know they were both real love!
not entirely sure what you mean here.
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
i knew i loved you b4 i met youuuu,
i think i dreamed u into life,
i knew i luved u b4 i met youuuu
i have been waiting all my life....
i luv that song. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
'To The Moon And Back'
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
~*~Emma~*~
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
just downloaded it, ahhhhhh i needed to hear that!
"anytime i need to see your face ij ust close my eyes and i am taken to a place where you crystal mind... magenta.... ermm something... cherry cola!" so there <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
for anyone thats interested, they're at http://lyrics.astraweb.com:2000/display.cgi?savage_garden..savage_garden..i_want_you
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees