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Going out with someone who is divorced
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My ex was also married when he was extremely young, so it's safe to say it doesn't put me off and rather is something I seem to (unknowingly) find quite attractive. It would be different if they had kids as a result of those marriages though, for sure. That's where I would proceed with extreme caution, or if the divorce wasn't finalised and there was danger of crazed ex-wife hosing you down with acid in Londis or even reconciliation.
I think now we're all starting to get a bit older you have to open your mind a bit, we all have a past and it's par for the course that some people's pasts will involve broken marriages. Who's the guy then? Is he recently divorced or is this way back when?
I think it's the same principle as when you'd talk about exes.
I've just met a guy who's seperated. I've not delved into that yet probably because I'm not really bothered, it's too soon. But if I did want to know, I'd have no oroblem making conversation about it, just like I hve no problem talking about my past.